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Re: New ladies
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That is why you can't user a scheduler. I know alot of new massage girls do but all the ones that started out 5-6 years ago did the same thing but they are all now independent and easy to schedule. Plus the scheduler and place they work take half there money. If these girls actually want to work and make any amount of money they go independent and not work for the man (who takes half).

Been having serious trouble meeting new providers. Not sure if it’s my approach or if everyone is having this issue. Most times I’m emailing with references but no luck. Advice?

Try seeing someone you reviewed in the past
Some are still around . If have trouble there then there is a reason.

I’ve found that some providers don’t have the common courtesy to let me know if they’re out of town or otherwise busy for the day/time I request. They simply don’t respond, despite my providing many OKs from p411 and/or references.  The true professionals have an OOO message on their email or get back to me and let me know they’re not available for the requested day/time so we can try for some other time.  

Which is one reason I tend to stick with the ladies who have proven to be professional, reliable and consistently exceptional in their work.  

most of the new independent providers who post phone numbers with email addresses seem only interested in the phone. In fact they can probably only cope with their phones. So they end up doing a lot of last minute business. It has become its own model, and it doesn't feel great for those of us -- men or women -- who prefer a more considered approach. Forget email unless it is the stated preferred contact option.  
It's like the old BP ad copy, "Don't call unless you're ready to come right now."

... the providers on P411 who have both “contact through P411” and “contact through email” in their profiles and they don’t respond to either.  I don’t know if those options are added by default, but a provider who uses P411 should be aware of what’s in her profile.

Many people leave town for break in the winter so it’s understandable that they may not be available for awhile, but if they prefer phone (or respond only to phone/text) they should say so in their P411 profiles (notes like that can be added) or whatever site they use for advertising.  

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I noticed there are alot of new girls, especially on tryst that have popped up in the last 6 months all in the 400-500 range. If you look closer they all have snap, insta, twitter, and onlyfans. There are also no reviews or anything about these ladies anywhere - they just want to "sell" their content. I talked to one of the newer ladies who actually posted on here and still has no reviews but is a good rate and she said alot of strippers and cam girls have joined the ranks of companionship. But it does make sense since if there is nothing about them but an onyfans link they are basically a cam girl, and who knows what the actually do in person.

I've run into some of the same issues.  Providers never respond or communications get started but then I stop hearing from them.  It's very annoying.

Same exact thing basically happened to me in one week.  Lady said she was going to email with an address "shortly", never got back to me.  This was after we had a visit set.  Another said she was available  "anytime" in one city when she was actually in another city.  I'm glad all these ladies have so many customers they don't have to treat possible new clients with basic  civility.  Maybe they were both at the meeting complaining about business being bad.

My unsolicited advice is: play the waiting game. The screening process takes time as does logistical planning for the confirmed meetings. I'm a low-volume provider doing my own admin work in order to make sure everyone remains safe and private. Coordinating locations and schedules also takes time. I wish the process was more casual and on-the-fly but that isn't realistic or safe. Be patient.

I don't really think that's what people are talking about here.  It's that the communication just stops and we never get a response.

Are you contacting providers that you have never seen or providers that are new to the scene?  Feel free to contact me.  I always respond to respectful inquiries.

There is a group of new ladies that all use the same scheduler. They won't use any existing ladies, p411 or here as any type of references. I'm not sure what they expect as a reference. I talked with one lady through Twitter and she had no clue about the above mentioned ways that most of us use. And then she wondered why her business has slowed so much. And she can't just tell them to book the room without going through the scheduler that clearly has no idea what they're doing.

That is why you can't user a scheduler. I know alot of new massage girls do but all the ones that started out 5-6 years ago did the same thing but they are all now independent and easy to schedule. Plus the scheduler and place they work take half there money. If these girls actually want to work and make any amount of money they go independent and not work for the man (who takes half).

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