In the interest of “providing” top service, I’d like to read where you believe that Providers fall short in ‘providing’.  To make it more meaningful for the intent of this thread, I think that we should endeavor to forgo miscues on your part.  For example:  failing to read (in full) the Provider’s website, and expecting more that what was offered.  Unfulfilled expectations are a “mutha”, especially if those expectations are not known or agreed upon by all parties involved.  The latter-mentioned is true in all undertakings in life.

Please be mindful that this soiree is not to chastise any particular Provider (so please refrain).  Complaints of Providers should be addressed in a different thread, but Providers are welcomed to chime in.  I hope that I’m not starting a Holy War with this thread.  Think of the thread as sort of a “How Are We’re Doing” type of thing.  

Thanks in advance folks.

One of the biggest turn-ons is a provider that makes the encounter and event. She is wearing something that you didn't see at the office today. She has a plan in case you don't have one. She is enthusiastic.

One of the biggest issues is the difficulty of communication, especially before the event. No one likes to discuss details over the phone nor by email. Once you are there, you need to get comfortable before you can talk about specifics.  

The best sessions are ones where I knew right away that the girl was into it and leads you quickly to the point where you feel comfortable discussion your session.

Excellent!  Are we listening/reading ladies?

I think the best part of variety......is variety.
If a provider isn't being herself it feeds through in the meeting. I'm not going to think I'm a match for every single provider and I wouldn't one one provider trying to be like another.
Too much pre info can ruin the excitement and anticipation of a meeting.
Being yourself is what I ask for. If we click......we click....and most times I can see and get something different and special from every provider. If not....we're just not a good match but we've had "some" fun I hope.

I think you expect too much if you expect your client to read your website from one end to another. We know what business your in, we're interested. Men, think differently than woman. Also, to show yourselfs in a provocative outfit and greet a client in jeans, takes something away from a first encounter.

For obvious reasons communication prior to an encounter is quite limited. Guys should certainly review the details on a provider's site very carefully. That does help avoid misunderstanding. We also have to be willing to acknowledge that even if an item is on the menu, it's the woman's perogative to decide whether to offer any particular item during an encounter. Menu items are not entitlements. As for the ladies, might I suggest that you consider asking this question: "What would make our time together especially enjoyable and memorable for you?"

It all starts in the way you greet the guy once he walks through the door. I can tell in the first 15 seconds onhow the appt will go based upon the greeting I receive.

Second, don't answer the phone, third once the guy is there, find out what he likes or what his hot buttons are and don't be afraid to tell him what you like or what excites you. Fourth, do be afraid to wear something sexy for the appt.

Make it all about him for what ever time you are together so when the time is done..he does not want to leave and want to come back asap (clinet mentality rather then customer approach).

DO NOT start taking him for granted and take short cuts on your preparation and performance.  I have had some favorites over the years that started to dial back the level of enthusiam and the attention to grooming and dress as a relationship developed.  The lady starts to treat the guy more like an SO and figures he will accept her without the makeup or hair being done or even a freshly trimmed or shaved pussy.  I remember once showing up at a favorite's place who had just rolled out of bed a few minutes prior to my arrival and looked like it.  If we paid you 300 an hour the first time, we still expect your A-game the umpteenth time for that amount as well.  

Second, do NOT show up or become drunk.  While sharing a bottle of wine is quite enjoyable, stop at one glass, especially if you have done that a few times previously that same day.  

Third, do NOT discuss other clients or boyfriends and do NOT discuss what you did with some other guy.  We are not stupid but we do like the pretense of being your only guy.

Wearing something sexy should be a given. An experience of a king...the way I see it is this is a fantasy I love to be made to feel sexy and hot so why wouldn't our male friends want the same. Xxo beckyraven

and I get just as much if not more pleasure out of giving than receiving.  So I like a lady that takes control and likes to have fun.

Is for the time I am there, that the lady and I make each other feel as if there is no other person on the planet. No disruptions and really enjoying each others company.

b-

Part of good communications and making me feel at ease is whe the other person says what they like too and does not just try to please me. Like someone here already said - I love to please too and that is a big turn on for me ! Some extra TLC that gets thrown in like helping dry each other off after a shower makes the event have a special personal touch. Ask me to light the candles to help me get rid of some  nervous energy.......-it tells me some of what you are expecting by doing that too.

"So I like a lady that takes control"

Thus the yelling of cucumber!  It took quite a while, but I knew I could make him do it! *Giggle*

Hugs,
D.

You said:
"I think you expect too much if you expect your client to read your website from one end to another."

I think that's just about the right amount of expectation, actually. I've spent way too much time and effort on my site to have it be disregarded. Those who don't or won't take the time to read it are generally not the kind of clients I want, anyway.

And encore on those remarks!  Now we're talking!

You are visiting me so leave all the stress outside in your car or at the elevator or something. Lol. Personally I love a long soft deep french kiss and a quick feel of your body against mine. I love when you ask me how my day want and how is life outside work because there is more to me as an individual decide this. I am intelligent and can very much hold a conversation. There is no script to follow. I love how natural it can get between us. Making me feel as I have know you from before. I want to feel like i can tell you anything and everything that i like and don't like. We shouldn't judge one another. I am here to get please as much as you would get pleased. The effort I personally make of taking my one day off to share with you should let you know I would rather share this moment between us and make it one to remember. Two individuals having a rough week at work and visiting one another for some fun not worrying about anything but that moment of pure true enjoyment. I take my time to smell and taste as well as look good for you so please be polite and step into the shower after we greet. I like to lay beside you and let the soft sound of the music playing in the background take a hold of our minds.Close your eyes and  Tell me how you want it because close mouth will not get feed. Lol.

To be continue...

(I am having too much fun with this post. If anything after reading it. I felt so good and moist. Lol. Back to work now.)

Kisses from your local latina playmate, LC

Some buzz kills: ringing cell phones, stubble (either shaved or not but not in between, breath problems. Impeccable kitty hygiene goes without saying, some ladies have an amazingly sexy taste and aroma, I always to forget to ask their secret.  
    For me there is nothing wrong with being greeted in civie clothes.  Peeling off a ladies jeans and unbuttoning a twins jersey to find some sexy, lacey underthings is totally sexy.  
    This next part may not be a direct answer but just sharing an observation.  The whole YMMV (your mileage may vary) is totally understandable and certainly unavoidable to some extent.  Even with consistently fabulous reviews, YMMV issues seem more likely with younger provider.  That is based on my limited experience.  The more mature ladies have been better at providing the GFE and that's what earns my repeat business.  Maybe it's just more "believable" for an old fart like me.  Maybe it's just me.  Anyway heartfelt kudos to you lovely ladies with lots of candles on your birthday cakes.  I never cease to be amazed at what sweet, interesting, sexy and genuinely nice
ladies (younger ladies included) I have had the good fortune of meeting in the last year and a half.

Very well-spoken.  One of the purposes of this thread is...........a wake-up call for all of us.  That includes clients too!

I come to the door. You answer. My eyes light up.
My heart skips a beat. You're not in jeans and a sweatshirt. You don't say "Hi. Come on in, whatever.." You're dressed at least in a dress, maybe even lingerie and you have a welcoming, friendly attitude, and we embrace like old friends, perhaps lovers as we greet eachother. Conversation is easy, not tense or forced. We enjoy a drink, then get more comfortable with eachother.

Too many girls have the nice pictures and when the guy shows up its just another "Dick at the door". "Come on in, whatever." Lets get naked, get off, get out the door. Wham bam thank you ma'am. Nice to meet you. Bye."

Its about making a connection..for the hour or two, and feeling good about what just happened when you're sitting in your chair 2-3 hours later having a drink. It's about a nice memory, the memory of the smile, the hair, the smell, the interaction.  You leave thinking, "Jees, I actually got her excited! She enjoyed being with me! Wow! Thinking about things that just don't happen at home anymore, perhaps never did.

Sure that doesn't happen often. But when it does, that provider really stands apart.

Well!!!!!!

The responses to this thread were exactly what the doctor ordered.  Thanks gentlemen, and the ladies who contributed.  One common theme among several of the responses alluded to the complacency that we're all prone to do from time to time.  This thread and it's responses should serve as a wake-up call to all of us.

I'm going to keep visiting the thread over the next few days to learn more.  Perhaps those who don't check the boards daily may have some other helpful things to add.

Thanks folks

Thanks all

...we shouldn't always have to ask! Right guys?!

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and, funny, I have only had 1 actually do it!  LOL...he looked mighty nice in my black lace panties!!