: Minnesota Discussion : Re: looks

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 1982 reads

posted 10 years ago

1 / 16

Forgive me I am new to this, though my first encounter is just days away. The question I ask is probably not for the ladies, as they'd likely have reason not to answer forthrightly.

Basically it is this -- not all of us gents are genetically endowed with what one might call attractive features. And the ladies are likely to see the whole spectrum, from drop dead gorgeous hunks, to hideous man beasts. So do you suppose the quality of service varies for different looking guys?

I mean we know many of us men are into looks and if some gal isn't particularly attractive it shrivels up our sexual desire. We'd have to be pretty good actors to hide it, along with a double dose of the blue pills.

I've been speculating that the range of reviews you can see vary quite a bit per provider. One provider can get high marks and mid range marks. Perhaps some of that is because they are more enthusiastic with better looking guys.

OldTimerB 45 Reviews 633 reads

posted 10 years ago

2 / 16

You know the answer to that question

Luckily, there are some ladies that fake it well and others that sincerely don't care about our looks and rather look inside to our soul, our heart, our mind...as it really should be.

Posted By: lester_prairie

Forgive me I am new to this, though my first encounter is just days away. The question I ask is probably not for the ladies, as they'd likely have reason not to answer forthrightly.

Basically it is this -- not all of us gents are genetically endowed with what one might call attractive features. And the ladies are likely to see the whole spectrum, from drop dead gorgeous hunks, to hideous man beasts. So do you suppose the quality of service varies for different looking guys?

I mean we know many of us men are into looks and if some gal isn't particularly attractive it shrivels up our sexual desire. We'd have to be pretty good actors to hide it, along with a double dose of the blue pills.

I've been speculating that the range of reviews you can see vary quite a bit per provider. One provider can get high marks and mid range marks. Perhaps some of that is because they are more enthusiastic with better looking guys.

nobodysfool2007 1 Reviews 555 reads

posted 10 years ago

3 / 16

My 2 cents which is open to debate.

Relax Lester.
While I cannot say without a doubt, that your observations, or concerns are without merit.
I want to instill upon you, that many of the providers are professional, and this is a Job to them.
So they generally are able to compartmentalize their emotions, and dislike, or distaste of those
who are not hunks, just average, or below average in the appearance category.

The whole dynamic, is rather complex, just as we humans are complex.
There are other considerations, such as personality, personal hygiene, manners, and so on.
A less attractive individual does not make for a bad date, session, or sex partner.
Often it is the reverse, in that the good looking hunk, Is in love with himself, arrogant, lacking in
personality, or just a plain old asshole jerk. While the ladies can verify, that there are clients
whom are just average, that the providers would rather entertain, as opposed to the really hot guy
who is lacking manners, and so on.
So with all that said, Relax ! allow the provider whom you chose to be your first experience, do what she does best, and hopefully Rock your world, and dispel any doubt that you may have toward
your self as a partner for the duration of the time spent.

Posted By: lester_prairie

Forgive me I am new to this, though my first encounter is just days away. The question I ask is probably not for the ladies, as they'd likely have reason not to answer forthrightly.

Basically it is this -- not all of us gents are genetically endowed with what one might call attractive features. And the ladies are likely to see the whole spectrum, from drop dead gorgeous hunks, to hideous man beasts. So do you suppose the quality of service varies for different looking guys?

I mean we know many of us men are into looks and if some gal isn't particularly attractive it shrivels up our sexual desire. We'd have to be pretty good actors to hide it, along with a double dose of the blue pills.

I've been speculating that the range of reviews you can see vary quite a bit per provider. One provider can get high marks and mid range marks. Perhaps some of that is because they are more enthusiastic with better looking guys.

OldTimerB 45 Reviews 450 reads

posted 10 years ago

4 / 16

Two more cents makes a nickel:-/

I'd just like to add to what nobodysfool already very well said.

Lester, you have a lot of control in how your session goes by focusing on what you can do. Things such as your personality, your hygiene, your manners, etc. If those are top notch, you'll likely have a fabulous session.

Posted By: nobodysfool2007

Relax Lester.
While I cannot say without a doubt, that your observations, or concerns are without merit.
I want to instill upon you, that many of the providers are professional, and this is a Job to them.
So they generally are able to compartmentalize their emotions, and dislike, or distaste of those
who are not hunks, just average, or below average in the appearance category.

The whole dynamic, is rather complex, just as we humans are complex.
There are other considerations, such as personality, personal hygiene, manners, and so on.
A less attractive individual does not make for a bad date, session, or sex partner.
Often it is the reverse, in that the good looking hunk, Is in love with himself, arrogant, lacking in
personality, or just a plain old asshole jerk. While the ladies can verify, that there are clients
whom are just average, that the providers would rather entertain, as opposed to the really hot guy
who is lacking manners, and so on.
So with all that said, Relax ! allow the provider whom you chose to be your first experience, do what she does best, and hopefully Rock your world, and dispel any doubt that you may have toward
your self as a partner for the duration of the time spent.

Posted By: lester_prairie

Forgive me I am new to this, though my first encounter is just days away. The question I ask is probably not for the ladies, as they'd likely have reason not to answer forthrightly.

Basically it is this -- not all of us gents are genetically endowed with what one might call attractive features. And the ladies are likely to see the whole spectrum, from drop dead gorgeous hunks, to hideous man beasts. So do you suppose the quality of service varies for different looking guys?

I mean we know many of us men are into looks and if some gal isn't particularly attractive it shrivels up our sexual desire. We'd have to be pretty good actors to hide it, along with a double dose of the blue pills.

I've been speculating that the range of reviews you can see vary quite a bit per provider. One provider can get high marks and mid range marks. Perhaps some of that is because they are more enthusiastic with better looking guys.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 425 reads

posted 10 years ago

5 / 16

looks

Interestingly about men and women and their assessment of looks ... studies have shown that women are actually more critical of looks than men! Sort of the opposite we have been lead to believe. When men judge female looks, the women fall on a typical bell curve with half the women being on the more attractive side and half being on the less attractive side. However when females judge male looks, the curve is skewed decidedly toward the unattractive. 80% of males are judged as on the unattractive side and only 20% are judged to be attractive by females.

Our stereotypical view that women don't care about looks as much as men do comes from the fact that despite finding most men unattractive, they will date and marry from those lower tiers. Partly out of mathematical necessity of course. Partly out of insecurity in their own looks (presumed best they can do.

DJ1985 21 Reviews 371 reads

posted 10 years ago

6 / 16

Be clean, respectful and on time

Place the proper donation where she can see it, be ready to leave when you time is up and you will be one of the most attractive men she sees.

Posted By: lester_prairie

Forgive me I am new to this, though my first encounter is just days away. The question I ask is probably not for the ladies, as they'd likely have reason not to answer forthrightly.

Basically it is this -- not all of us gents are genetically endowed with what one might call attractive features. And the ladies are likely to see the whole spectrum, from drop dead gorgeous hunks, to hideous man beasts. So do you suppose the quality of service varies for different looking guys?

I mean we know many of us men are into looks and if some gal isn't particularly attractive it shrivels up our sexual desire. We'd have to be pretty good actors to hide it, along with a double dose of the blue pills.

I've been speculating that the range of reviews you can see vary quite a bit per provider. One provider can get high marks and mid range marks. Perhaps some of that is because they are more enthusiastic with better looking guys.

OldTimerB 45 Reviews 277 reads

posted 10 years ago

7 / 16

Re: looks

So you have nothing to worry about

Posted By: lester_prairie

Interestingly about men and women and their assessment of looks ... studies have shown that women are actually more critical of looks than men! Sort of the opposite we have been lead to believe. When men judge female looks, the women fall on a typical bell curve with half the women being on the more attractive side and half being on the less attractive side. However when females judge male looks, the curve is skewed decidedly toward the unattractive. 80% of males are judged as on the unattractive side and only 20% are judged to be attractive by females.

Our stereotypical view that women don't care about looks as much as men do comes from the fact that despite finding most men unattractive, they will date and marry from those lower tiers. Partly out of mathematical necessity of course. Partly out of insecurity in their own looks (presumed best they can do.)

vorlon 119 Reviews 468 reads

posted 10 years ago

8 / 16

If providers focused mostly on guys looks, their client base would be much smaller

Most hobbyists are considerable older than the escorts they see and are of average looks at best. Behave like a gentleman, be clean, and leave the correct donation, and you will be fine.

vantheman666 11 Reviews 337 reads

posted 10 years ago

9 / 16

Experience can change a person's view of things

Almost all the providers I have met have, based on their experience with multiple men, changed their views on what is attractive and what is not. Because of their experience, they are more open-minded than the "average" woman, and may in fact develop preferences based on clients who they have had good experiences with (for instance, a 25-year-old provider who I see on a regular basis now prefers to date much older men in real life). Take a shower, brush your teeth, and treat her like you would your wife or girlfriend, and you will have nothing to worry about.

OldTimerB 45 Reviews 342 reads

posted 10 years ago

10 / 16

Re: Experience can change a person's view of things

Isn't the whole point of seeing providers, we don't have to treat them like our wives or girlfriends? Just kidding, I know what you mean...and I do treat them as you say

Posted By: vantheman666

Almost all the providers I have met have, based on their experience with multiple men, changed their views on what is attractive and what is not. Because of their experience, they are more open-minded than the "average" woman, and may in fact develop preferences based on clients who they have had good experiences with (for instance, a 25-year-old provider who I see on a regular basis now prefers to date much older men in real life). Take a shower, brush your teeth, and treat her like you would your wife or girlfriend, and you will have nothing to worry about.

cheyen 74 Reviews 351 reads

posted 10 years ago

11 / 16

lovely ladies

One of the best parts of what we call our hobby is the acceptance of the ladies in spite of our shortcomings. Where else can short bald 65 year old enjoy the company and touch of a beautiful 30 year old woman who is interested in a passionate encounter and ask nothing more than a little financial help.

To the OP I can assure you that what matters to the ladies we meet is not how you look but how you act. If you are kind and respectful your looks and your age don't matter. Show up clean and handle the $ silently and treat her with respect and adoration and she will return the favor.