I am interested in putting up a page for a male escort and I.  What are some things I should take into consideration or do to please those of you out there who'd love to see us in action?

In doing that as I have a friend that's a male escort.........I just don't believe there's much of a market for it in Mpls.

I think there is, we just haven't tapped it yet!

I think you'll find that most guys around here have a strict "one weiner" rule.

Lol... I have services for that, too ;P

I think we should hook up

....and strictly speaking for myself, I also have a "one weiner" rule and it seems to me that the guy-girl team would be attractive mainly to men with a cuckhold fetish or who are bisexual.  Been invoved in this type of 3 some in the past, (way in the past) and I would guess it would be uncomfortable for many of us "mature" gents who already have body image issues, without having a stud in the room with us..... and especially not to pay for this.

There is a local couple already offering this service.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=3550&boardID=82&page=4#3550

Is there sex between client and you?
Or is there some interaction with you and you and male escort have sex?
Or is just watching you get laid by your male escort friend ?

I think many who have responded think this is a MFM sex thing.

I think it's a really fun idea with a lot of potential.  It would be perfect for someone that isn't always able to climax or just doesn't like the feeling that they have to in order to get their money's worth.

It's also a great idea for someone that is into things that require more trust than a typical patron/provider relationship might allow.  Hair pulling, face slapping, dirty talk, etc. come to mind.  

The most important thing is that you have great sexual chemistry with this guy and that it feels like it's what you would be doing for fun on your night off.

It doesn't have to be for everyone.  I think it's a great niche offering.

but no way I will even consider paying a couple to watch them fuck. More likely I would cross a provider off my to see list that is offering doubles with another guy.

Also not interested in a threesome that involves another guy even if he were paying.

I am young, healthy and in-shape so I don't have any image issues or anything just in case you were wondering.

Don't blame you for not wanting to, "cross swords" (as I once heard it referred to).

As anyone in business knows, it's important to convey a consistent identity. Sounds as if you're having an identity crisis and it may hurt you, especially with existing, valued clients. I know I would bolt. On the other hand, you may gain a whole new base of guys whom I would characterize as being "on the edge." Time will tell. Good luck!

I was one who responded and was just backing up your opinion on what you interpreted it to be i.e. a "MFM sex thing" and thanks for thinking for everyone else. Much appreciated!

Get your panties out of your ass, you will feel much better.

There was a married couple offering this last year. She called herself White Fox. I visited several times and had lot of fun. No FS but just about everything else. They were a kinky pair and with hubby there she felt safe enough to include me in activities no sane provider is going to let a stranger do with her all alone in a hotel room. As I recall, there was some discussion about her on this board and more than a few guys expressed interest. So far in this thread you've mostly been hearing from the nay-sayers who seem to think they speak for everyone. Since you asked for comments from people who DO like the idea, it's always baffling that people who DON'T like the idea feel the need to hijack the thread. You aren't that important, guys. Your silence would be an adequate expression of disinterest. Takes all kinds, after all.

I haven't noticed any homosexual tendencies in my make up, and I certainly have my own body issues, but I enjoy porn and the opportunity to watch a pretty women get comprehensively fucked, up close and personal, is worth something to me. Helps if she is really cute when cumming so Trin, you're off to a good start. Telling him how to position her and telling her how to move can be fun. Bit of voyeurism, maybe. Since Trinity is not FS I don't see how it can be a full MFM sex thing, as Hobby insists, but Trin is a friendly girl and I doubt she will leave a guy just sitting on his hands the whole time. Need to be clear about expectations, if you're gonna do it.

A dash of cold water comes when you realise how little the guy is likely to be paid. Male talent in a porn shoot gets a hundred bucks while the lady gets a thousand or more. They can split the donation any way they like, of course, but if she wants to receive her usual fee he is not likely to get paid very much. So Trin, if you are thinking of this as a significant money maker, you may be disappointed. If you view it as a way to include the male escort in some of the fun you are having, then any money is just a bonus.

Considerations. If your guest is going to be sitting and watching, make sure he has a comfortable seat with a good view. A choice of refreshments would be nice. Consider lighting. Too bright just accentuates the negative. Not enough light to see and it becomes a rip-off. If you plan to let your guest direct your movements, think about how you will deal when you are just about to have a good moment and suddenly he interrupts, telling you to change positions.

And for heaven's sake, make sure your male escort friend has an easy-going disposition and is not given to sudden fits of anger and violence. 'Roid rage is an ugly thing. Also, good if he doesn't insist on comparing packages with your guest.

I was not making any assumptions like you have- I was questioning Ms Lake-  I never assumed it was MFM as you did.
It was not my opinion- just an observation.


I fucking don't need your help.

This is a discussion board and we are all entitled to our opinions.   I prefaced mine by writing UPFRONT that I only speak for myself.  My comments were not negative, but actually were respectful, unlike yours which are degrading, demeaning and disrespectful.  Nobody has hijacked the thread.  If one posts a thread about a subject like this you are going to get differing opinions, GET OVER YOURSELF ALREADY!  

You respectfully declared that anyone interested in something like this must be bisexual and have a cuckold fetish. I can see how that is responsive to her request for comments from people who are interested. Clearly, you were trying to encourage those people to express their interest and thereby prove themselves to be bisexual. And have a cuckold fetish.

Once again, your silence would have been an adequate expression of your disinterest. You didn't have to degrade, demean, and disrespect the people who are interested in her proposal.

is usually something another couple wants to engage in. That has been my experience. I have not had a request for a MFM. Sometimes a couple asks if I have a sexy man to bring along ....They like the idea of WATCHING.  Then they can join in at their leisure and comfort level.

This is a discussion board, that is what we do, discuss topics related to fucking, which this thread is.  Silence is not communication on a board like this.  We share ideas here by posting,  And, are you a mind reader too?  I didn't ask anyone to share their fetish or their bisexuality.  There was NO judgement in my comments, meant or implied.  That you choose to think my comments imply a judgement on anybody says more about you then me.  Do YOU have a problem with bisexualty or cucks, hmmm?  Why would you think that I was attempting to disrespect anyone by claiming they might enjoy a service?  And you state that there is not a homosexual bone in your body?  So?  Why did you feel the need to tell us that?  Is it a problem with you if a man is bi or gay?   Anyone who knows me and has read my my postings in the past knows that I never, EVER judge ANYONE on their sexual preferences and practices.  It's all good to me.  Here's a thought (it's disrepectful though), take your hate (and censorship) and peddle it somewhere else.

Im bi, If it was safe (which i guess condoms would be required), i would love to make out with a girl over some guys cock.

Hope your friends are bi :P

Not my cup of tea either but my solution is simply that I won't participate.

This is supposed to be fun.  I have time constraints, so I can't really comment on everyone.  Best I can say is:

minn4ever is spot on with where I'm going with this, if I do.  Read his post, and don't get all emotional over it.

Yes, my partner is bi.  No, I'd never leave a client out of the fun.  He wouldn't either.  He has NO problems with kink, fetish, or taking direction.  He and I both feel that it is not ABOUT us; it is about the client!

For those of you who would actually stop seeing me if I even OFFERED this service to the select few who'd like it: suit yourself.  I don't judge.

I have a couple women friends in the massage business that offered 4-handed massage together and got ripped for it. WTF people? Just don't partake.

Can be dangerous to float them. If this one pops, hope you are not among the casualties.

explain with a little more clarity what it is you were planning to offer- rather than allowing a surrogate to give us the details.
As far a time constraints, you surely could have stuck your nose in the tent to give us silly boys a clue, before we went off the deep end.  Just My opinion.

This scenario doesn't float my boat- and I don't care what people do to get their rocks off. I would think that a bi-courious female would love this kind of adventure, but as far as I know there aren't many civilian female lurkers perusing the TER ads and board.  Might be an SO or 2 of a hobbyist who wants to give his lady a treat.  As your friend is a male escort, I assume he would boink her- it's just you who doesn't do the boinking with clients.

And I suppose there are a handful of bi or bi-courious guys who might enjoy this also.

I realize you are a fun girl who likes sex- (at least with your partner) and I hope it works for you.

Not many of us "silly boys" know about this kind of stuff.

It might have made sense to you, yes, but I'm not the one creating the drama and all this bickering.  I am simply asking the opinion of others.

For the record, I've had several PMs from interested parties.  Anyone not interested need not get in a huff just because I would offer such a thing (not including you, doggie_daddy42).  I'm just offering a different menu item.  No need to order.  The description, as far as I know for now would be very difficult to describe as there are MANY things we'd like to do.

My partner is bi comfortable.  NEITHER of us are FS, but we do have sex with each other and are exclusively BB with each other.  We both do CBJ, are very kink-friendly, take requests/direction, love toys, and are very down to earth and fun to talk to and hang out with.  There is NO way we would do this and leave a client to just watch unless that is well requested by the client.

I love my one-on-one clients, and I will continue for that to be my main direction.  I just saw a post a bit ago about Armando and Talia, and I know that I'd have fun doing something like that.  I've really enjoyed doing threesomes with Whitney, and I'm just branching out.  If nobody is interested, then that's fine.  I won't be offended.  I am not offended by anyone saying they would never want to do that.

I would greatly appreciate it, though, if I could just have comments and suggestions about what you'd like in this situation if it would interest you.  That being my main desire, however, does come with the wisdom that, yes, this is a discussion group, and all are free to comment as they so desire

Trinity