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Need a way to verify something in advance . . . .
gatorincs 40 Reviews 1749 reads
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Hello ladies and gents,

Was looking for some thoughts from the community on this situation.  There is a provider with whom I am hoping to make an appointment.  She has some, but not a lot of, reviews.  I am a multiple-cup guy, and I like to know in advance that MSOG is on the menu before making the appointment.  In this provider's profile, it says "Yes" under multiple cups.  However, I have read every one of her reviews, and not a single one mentions multiple cups being had.  I am not sure where the "Yes" came from.

Anyone have a suggestion how I can verify that MSOG is on the menu before setting the appointment?  She doesn't have a private mailbox here at TER -- not that I would want to email that question, anyway.  Is it wrong for me to set the appointment expecting MSOG?  Should I automatically assume I can have MSOG with a provider, assuming I don't run over my time?

Your thoughts are appreciated!

- gator

gatorincs 40 Reviews 791 reads
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3 / 7

That's a great thought, actually, and I have contacted a few, but only gotten one response.  And he confirmed only one cup, for him anyway, which only heightens my desire to find out more info.

CarnalCry 6 Reviews 1468 reads
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4 / 7

Asking a provider if they were familiar with TER and the reviews and then if the info in their profile was correct...would that be a no-no?

I'm not sure, but it isn't getting into any details or specific questions. Maybe some of the ladies could answer if that would be a bad thing to do or not.

RealP4U 57 Reviews 623 reads
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5 / 7

If she has reviews, she no doubt knows about TER.  Suggest to her, either on the phone or email, that you have a special concern, and you posted that on TER, with your screen name and the time and date.  Ask if she would read your post, and let you know if the information on her profile is correct, or the information given by her clients is correct.  

Of of course, you could wait until you meet, get comfortable with each other, and then just come out and ask.

belindabell See my TER Reviews 1545 reads
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6 / 7

in assuming what is in the profile is correct. Ultimately, it is up to the ladies to make sure our profiles are accurate.   However, reality dictates that this is not always the case.

As I see it you have 4 options: 1. How about getting verified and THEN asking??? 2. Or as Remy suggested, PM the guys who have reviewed her. 3. Try it, and hope for the best.  4. Move on and find a sure thing!    

If it were my hard-earned dollar, I'd go with option 4.

Good luck!
Hugs, Belinda

gatorincs 40 Reviews 415 reads
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