Would you rather be the first one to see a provider on a given day, or the last one? The theory behind this is that early in the day you get her fresh and full of energy. But if she has too many appts. that day will she only do enough to get you off and save her energy for later. If you see her late night, assuming its her last appt., hopefully she has had a slow day and she doesn't have to hold back. Just wondering what your thoughts are on this. Maybe providers don't ever hold back. Both clients and providers may respond.
How many guys do you think the average provider sees in one day? Even if it was 2-3, I can't imagine that making someone so tired that they'd hold back. Obviously I don't know every provider, but going from what I've heard, read, and discussed with other girls, most of us don't do high volume.. at least not to the extreme of exhausting us.
Now, on the other hand I think there are always going to be girls who will hold back for whatever reason whether you're the first of many or the last. Hopefully though, you're seeing the kinds of girls who will always be fresh and full of energy for you no matter what!
I don' consider the ladies I see to be high volume. But on the other hand, they are popular and provide a good time. I think I'm a teddy bear type. Easy-going, goes with the flow, not that demanding. I recently saw a lady that is very popular and had a great time. When I left, I stopped at a nearby Macindons for a bite to eat. It was about a half hour later then that I drove by her place again and there was a new car in the driveway, she was obviously entertaining again. It just makes me wonder how much energy some of these ladies have! lol Like I said, I had a great time, I didn't feel short-changed at all, but...you still wonder.
Well you should have treated her to "Macindons"!! kidding... 
It could have been a friend.. ya never know. Seriously though I wonder too about some people (and this isn't a bash against anyone) but I wonder how some girls manage to do super high volume and still check references? :-/
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You're kidding, right? You don't believe that those who run us thru like cattle really check refs..do ya! I doubt it very much. Even if they ask for refs, I doubt they ever check them. On the other topic, Ya..you betcha... I'm sure you're right. It was just a friend! But then again, aren't we all?
and it sure is kinda of creepy that you were interested enough to drive by her place 1/2 hour later.. what was your purpose?
Did you have to make a special trip to do the drive-by? What if she had been outside and saw you drive by??? Did you think of that?
Now, if there wasnt a car would you have been relieved? Maybe you were thinking you were her lone date for the day? Shhesh.
You are almost sounding a little obsessive. Are you taking the time with her way to much to heart?
I guess my point was that some of us girls DO have lives outside of escorting where real friends stop by to visit.
that a hobbyist makes a point of noticing that a car is parked in a provider's driveway and thinks to himself that she's "entertaining again" and that he is "wondering." ?
If it was a logical route for him to take anyway, then no.
As an older guy my preference is to be the last client. My reason is simple- that when seeing a world class provider, much like the ladies on this link, should I have a "climactic" heart attack and die there is ample time for the medical examiner, ambulance, gawkers, etc; to clear the area. I would hate to make the next hobbiest wait for all that commotion to die down.
If we're assuming that the volume the provider sees is such that it matters when you see them, then in my experience, earlier has always been better than later. And I can't ever remember someone not holding back because you might be the last of the night...by that time, they're usually tired and ready for the day to end. I guess what I'm saying is that either it doesn't matter because the volume isn't such that it will affect performance, or you want to be early because volume will affect performance.
I realize that the common perception has always been that you like to see your provider early. I do see one provider that our schedules work out that evening are good for both of us. Usually late evenings...she says she likes to see me as her last call of the day. I'm wondering again...is it because I'm easy to please and not very demanding, or does she just like me and want to finish with a good appt. She is popular, and I think she does see a fair amount of people during the day. I guess it really doesn't make any difference as long as I'm happy with her services.
If you're not feeling short changed in the service department and you're happy, than she probably does genuinely like that you are her last call and it probably does have something to do with your nature and demeanor. Nothing wrong with that, it actually seems like it may work out best for the both of you. Or if you're really curious about it, maybe try setting something up with her earlier for a change and see for yourself if it makes a difference.
Prefer her to be warmed up but don't want to be last in line
I would much rather have the first of the day, more energy, and maybe get her going for a good finish or two.
if I were a provider, I'd take offense.
This is a bit like asking if you prefer to see the dentist early in the day or late in the day. Why does it matter?
Good providers are professionals. In my experience - 40+ years -- providers deliver a service, and their performance doesn't depend on the time of day or how many other clients they've seen or will see. They have a job to do and they do it.
In the bad old days of brothels, I once made a point of seeing an ATF first in the day and then at the end of the day. There were probably four clients in between. No difference in her performance, tho there probably was in mine.
True, there will be off times and off days just as there are for anyone, but the factors leading to an "off" performance are more likely unrelated to having seen other clients.
Since most of my dates are dinner dates, which range from three to several hours, quite often, I am the only one that the lady will be seeing on that day. If she is seeing someone earlier, it's most likely going to be several hours earlier, so she has time to get ready for our date. Almost all of the ladies I see are pretty low volume, but still, I don't give it much thought, and I've been pretty fortunate so far.
Can't say it makes much difference to me; it's enough for me to figure out what works best for my schedule and then find a time she is available.
Hi~
I can only speak for myself, but I'm very low volume by choice.
I will only see one or two boyfriends a day. You will never know which one, or if you're the only one that day.
As previously stated, low or high volume, we are professionals. You should get the same treatment whether you are the first or last client of the day.
Just my 2 cents.
Hugs,
D.
Drive by the house? stalking?
She gave it her all when you were there, didnt she? Who cares how many other clients in a day?
A real professional makes each client feel like they ARE the only one of the day or week or month-that fantasy is what you are paying for!
early in the day by all means. If it is a traveling lady some of them can do up to 10 appts/day for 3 days. I would not even want to go there towards the end of the day let alone the end of the tour. Local ladies still woudl be the same as far as early in the day when the are more rested and ready to rock our worlds!
For that hour or so, I am her ONLY client!
i agree, i don't think about it that way. i usually go for after work, before i eat supper. occasionally i get canceled on, and then i have time to line up something else. but mainly, i have the evening to enjoy the smile on my face!
I can only function properly at night, I'm a complete zombie during the day. Don't see how people can wake up at the crack of dawn and expend that kind of energy. It's probably just me though...the moon brings it out of me.
I was "higher volume," back when I lived in MN. Since then, I've scaled back to seeing zero to two people on any given day. So, it really does not matter when a client sees me. I also avoid seeing clients when I am not in my best element.
Kim
