I am just sick over this.  Please read this thread:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewAll.asp?BoardID=9&Page=1&Messageid=114693

And view this article:
http://bostonherald.com/news/regional/view/2009_04_15_Woman_found_bound__shot__in_Boston/srvc=home&position=4

Espeically PLEASE look at the pictures.  Ladies!!! How many of you would let this guy in your door?? I'd place bets that every one of you would.  I would.  But only if I had thoroughly screened him first!

Ladies!  SCREEN SCREEN SCREEN!  Just because they "say" the have references, and even offer them, PLEASE check them!!!  Say no, and stay safe.  If you are seeing someone new, make sure SOMEONE you know checks up on you if you do not call him/her when the appointment should be over.

The worst can happen, to any one of us.  The 29 year old who was robbed last week (see the article) might have saved this young woman's life if she had known who she was opening the door to and had been able to report it.  My guess is she did not.  Whether or not this 26 year old check references is now quite a moot point.  Maybe maybe there is record of who she thought she was seeing, but this article does not say anything like that.

Please ladies screen us!  We expect it and we appreciate it!  This world is full of sick people, and you need to protect yourselves from them.  I know most of you screen thoroughly, please keep it up.  If your customer traffic slows down, you can not reduce your screening to help business. You ladies mean a lot to us, you are the only reason we are all here.

Please be careful out there.

BLG

complain that my screening process was too hard and was like trying to purchase a car......or obtain a mortgage.

It's painfully obvious now why we screen.......
a young woman has tragically lost her life-taken away by some low life scumbag!

Prostitute, masseur, hooker, whore, slut, provider or whatever you call us, this is unbelieveable!  

You are ladies!!!!

I know a lot of guys bitch about the screening process.  Sorry you have to put up with the complaining.  Most of the guys on here would not see you if you didn't screen.  Your life is worth more than any car I have ever owned.

Keep screening!!!!

OMG!!!!! this is soooo sad!
i have never really had guys complain about screening, however it has sometimes been IMPOSSIBLE to get ahold of the ladies in order to verify the gentleman...

LADIES VERIFY VERIFY VERIFY!!! AND STAY SAFE!!

xoxo to all of you!!!
-V

And string the bastard up!

http://mobile.boston.com/site?t=wKqrNriuf1XGVejKkc1fJg&sid=boston&tcid=QWC89144587d6c84cfdb5812c959e810760

BTW... note... they got the id for the woman from Facebook.

"Prostitute, masseur, hooker, whore, slut, provider or whatever you call us, this is unbelieveable!"

How about, People.  No matter what anybody else thinks, we are people.



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I have the same problem too with my "robocop" of a screening process.
But I can't deal with taking the risks being laid back by letting just anybody through.
Even With the economy right now some people are getting desperate & desperate means dangerous IMHO.
For me
I'd rather be slow than un safe .
I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS EITHER,