It doesn’t affect whether you set  or don’t set an appointment, or shoot your load  with whom ever you choose to do so with does it??  If it does not my problem.  

It’s just hierarchical mentality bullshit. Play that game if you want.  but not everyone is going to.

TER  guideline say that insults, intimidation , name calling etc have no place on this board and will not be allowed on this board ever .
The also go on today that comments should be those in conversation with said person  
To date they have not appeared to stop these in moderation ( we do not see those they have) and seem to feel that the present interchanges are making the site more interesting and bringing more traffic  
What they fail to realize is how many are getting disgusted and leaving especially on the provider side  
Until the ownership or moderators step in nothing will change .

nor is it cancel culture to make a simple request. A request may either be honored or declined and it’s obvious that it is being declined. That said, if the moderation team feels that certain behavior doesn’t violate the rules, then we have to respect that. The decision then falls on each individual to either keep interacting on the board or to step away.  

 
However, given what the individual stated about “treating others with respect” and “treating others how they want to be treated”, I thought it would be worthwhile to ask. Respect can be given in the written word as well. When someone went so far as to post an insulting thread about me and my body (which I get it fellas - many MN TER users aren’t attracted to my body type🤷🏽‍♀️, one of you can stop emailing me about it😂), I didn’t devolve into insults when hit with disrespect.  

 
As they say, hindsight is always 20/20. Had I known my request was going to implode to the level it had, I would not have said anything. I digress.  

 
I hope that everyone is able to have a great holiday whether with family, friends, or going it solo. Sending everyone love and light.