So I stand up for a fellow provider and open up a discussion about the mean ways in which some guys can write a review....
I ask why bother to write things in this way..(kinda sexiest -kinda mean.) I get some great feedback and couple of questions, so I try to reply to the questions my reply sits around for 3 to 4 hrs (as others get posted) finally my response gets posted sometime last night....
        I really appreciated the positive feedback from the well balanced, healthy happy people that are members of TER.
Thank you.
               I decide to ask for access to the provider only board again 2days ago but find out I was denied again, and again with no explanation. I'm wondering what the trick is to get accepted to the provider only board as I imagine it's a great place and nice way to help stay safe.

might have been that you quoted from the juicy details part of the review. That is VIP access only and against TER board posting policy, I do believe that you could post without that and you could do what you do.

I did report the "Friday shill" TER told me "the post is allowed"
I brought up the review because I felt it was needlessly rude & I wanted to open up a discussion on keeping it real but making an effort to not be so rude....it's a discussion -not everyone will want to participate-or agree, that should be ok.

yet i believe asking them in this forum is probably similar to asking a fundaminalist muslim or christian or jew why the bible and koran are the word of g*d.  

Thank you very much, I completely didn't stop & think how in my response! I did quote a small part of the VIP deats...so true that was wrong of me, duh. Thanks for the insight

Catch-22....

I try to be kind when writing reviews, but have been challenged on occasion.  

I do think before writing/talking & trust- I chose my words carefully and go out of my way to try NOT to offend. My post was one of comrade & NOT malice.  


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....I did not see the offensive shill post and it must be gone now, there are just two positive shill posts on you from Friday.   Thumper was right about one thing, critiques are not allowed on shill posts, they will be removed by TER as long as someone points them out to admin.  Some morons here just can't resist taking a shot at a lady and the "damning with feint praise"  as another poster put it, is just an example of bad behavior that most of us don't like.

I have no bone to pick here.
Elan has been polite in her reply, and so there should be no surprise as to what her reply is meant to convey.

She is just simply stating, Think before you engage your mouth, Or fingers in this instance.
Mindy, you may very well have every good intention, to get reviewers to think about the content of their submitted reviews. To that I say, that it is an admirable effort.

However, you expressed more than an opinion, in the removed post, In which you drew a road map to the review, and then berated the reviewer on his selection of words, which set a particular tone in the review.

In essence, your post reads like you are the examiner of reviews, and if you see something you find offensive, you are going to point it out.
That my Dear, is TER Staff who has that function.

I don't think you can make sense out of TER's policies as they seem to change at the whims of whoever is making the ruling.  

Berating, criticizing, scolding, harping are for the menfolk.
The board works better when womenfolk know their place.
Smile sweetly. Bend over when you serve so you show some cleavage and TER will go along quite nicely.

They ended up pulling the shill and not allowing your post.  The reason for the comment on the shill was that I looked at the boards, saw the shill and thought I would contact you.  Your response, while your opinion, was very dismissive and abrupt accusing me of being something I was not without basis.  So I simply posted in response to the thread I had used to find you.  I am sure you are a sweet and wonderful person to spend time with, but the whole discourse probably could have been better.

Now lets not twist the original subject into something else.

The offense that got the post removed, broke the rules. It is not about, what Mindy thinks, or feels, It is about what had been revealed in her original post.
She is quite welcome to express her opinion, All within the board rules.

Everyone can dislike his choice of words, or the tone that it sets, in the review. But in this case, even though a majority dislikes the review, this is not a democratic process. It was his choice to be rude, and malicious. And as stated prior, it says more about Him as an individual than the provider. correct ?

...opps...white knight is coming....run Forest run...

The last couple days have helped me clear things up a little.  There is now one less lady on my lady of interest list.

There you go again, twisting things to fit your agenda, Do you do this often ? like nit pick ?
Do you feel that you are always correct ?
The third and forth paragraphs, are directly connected to the first paragraph. I stated an opinion, in which I am referring to the now removed thread, further pointing out that she should avoid examining reviews, and then posting information that is against the rules. Correct ?

However, it is all moot now, considering that this entire thread has gotten very embarrassing for her to some degree.

I have seen everything you've written in the past week.  All I sense in your intentions is good.  Intentions are a big thing for me.  They help me weigh other's and my own mistakes and attitudes.  Your intentions are obviously not ill will towards anyone, and I am so sorry that this has gotten so out of hand.

Oh noooozzz some coward who hides behind an alias is going to pull the whole passive aggressive
 " I guess thats one less lady im going to see " BS post..  

oh noooooooooozzzzzzzz

its like a disease,,  

Mindy, I'm sure you will have no hrtbrk over a couple of fuzzy bares who have really stepped up their game and reiterated(look it up,dumbos) they refuse to spend money for quality....the best thing here is many others have seen their true colors. You have done many providers a favor. Trin is right.....time to spend a vaca day with her.....

No magical power just my opinion and my choice.

Where the hell did you come up with "they refuse to spend money for quality...."?  Many of the top local and national ladies will be very surprised to find out they are not quality in your opinion.

That the reviews say more about the reviewer than the provider. I look at the over all style of the provider in the details to see if there is something that turns me on. Is she aggressive or shy? Does she like to talk or get right to sex? What service is her specialty? I don't care too much about the numbers given or the one off complaints that are not repeated in other reviews. I would not worry too much and just keep providing the same great service because there is a quiet majority that isn't going to take sides in an issue we know nothing about to save or burn some provider or hobbiest we don't know.

This is why you post under an alias,,,  
You know that providers DNS clients who act like assholes on the boards..  

Someone starts a thread with a point of view (kind of nice in a forum), it heats up, and your first thought is of HH. Do you think about her all the time? You need to get out more. Maybe meet a few people. Get laid or something...just a thought. Or just keep entertaining us. Either is Ok with me, not that my opinion on this matters to either of us.

Your right, no heartbreak over the people who don't care to ever meet me.  
I'm a lil sad that TER will not pull this thread as I have been requesting ever since this became an "angry bash fest"...
I'm also sad that after the admin. Tried to imply that my reviewer was fake his post was never put up, he tried to say he would gladly send TER a copy of his DL and that it was an honest mistake( logging in to his TER while with me) but that post was never put up for the hours that others got to chime in on what the admin. said.
      I invite anyone who read the BS about me yesterday to take a browse thru my reviewers and click on their name & look for yourself to see they are some very real, very nice, gentleman and as far as I can tell some of them had a very great time with me.... Like I said I did try to get this whole thing removed, but since the request has been closed I guess this thread will stay put......I tried like hell not to say anything else on this....but since so many others felt the need to comment- I just wanted to say my closing thoughts.  
Happy Monday everyone,
~Mindy

always wins in my book..after all, what could go wrong?..better to ask what could go right with Trinity!!!

Plus one for kcmn. Couldn't agree more.  Well said

Maybe you should paste some of your forum highlights on your ads, so potential customers know who you REALLY are.

I have no opinion on any of this either way, other than to say I learned a new phrase, "jackwad douche canoes", which I plan to start using a lot more around in meetings around the office.  

Yeah, but how do you find the right context? Do you use this phrase when speaking directly to the accused or more in a third person reference? If you direct it to a person, then it may come off as an insult. Looking for guidance because I would hate to look stupid by using it wrong.

My guess is that it was devised by someone with many years of Public Relations and Marketing experience. It's not for the casual conversation with the boss.

I would have used rotten cunt bucket but calling him a cunt would have implied warmth and depth and clearly thats lacking...  

If you're this "polite" on the forum, I can only wonder how you'd be in a session?

mindyzurgirl when i come thru minnesota i hope you will be my girl