How do you like your cashmere sweater?

We have had a good run of excellent touring and agency providers visiting our state of late.

You might have to save up and pony an extra $.5 but they are worth it. Heck most well reviewed local providers are already in the $$$.5 - $$$$$ range which is comparable to touring and agency providers. FLES still charges $$$ when they send providers here.

Touring providers and agencies will verify as well but I am comfortable with their level of verification. Many will also accept verification like P411, Date-Check, RS2000 and be satisfied. No need for additional references or employer info etc.

Also less chance of NCNS, behind the scenes drama or blackmail. Many also willingly give references with no issues or worry about losing business.

I have experienced the same issues with verification like you have described and decided to move on. I am not going to send a provider a bunch of my info only for her to demand more that I am not willing to provide. Then she still has enough info of mine to cause trouble even though I never saw her.

but just because 2 providers make it that rough for you out of the hundreds in MN doesn't mean all are going to do that to you.   I don't believe you are stuck with your two regulars, like a marriage you can't get out of.  I think you just need to continue your search is all. If you don't want to screen then don't.  Period.   Seriously, why would you go through all that trouble if you really didn't want to do it in the first place.  Regardless of who the providers were.  Just like I tell girls all the time.......You do not have to do anything you do not want to do. Same holds true for the guys.

I screen and I can be tough as nails on the ones that do not have provider references.  But I do it for my safety and for YOUR safety.  That's just the way it has to be.  I like my freedom.  I don't look so good in an orange jumpsuit, tan sandles, and big clunky silver bracelets.  Call me melodramatic but I have NEVER been arrested for anything and I want to keep it that way.  

Now, I have been beat up and attacked in my personal life and I would prefer that NOT happen in THIS life so I screen.  So sue me.    I turn away men because they do not want to screen--I turned down one today because of screening.   I will not waver---a few dollars is not worth my safety and security.

If you guys don't like it, then find providers who don't ask.  I for one am tired of the complaints.  Seriously....it gets old.   Those of us who are PRO screening are never going to change YOUR minds about it.  And those who are ANTI screening are never going to change OUR minds about it.   The arguments for and against are never going to change.  So lets all agree to disagree and forget it.  

I mean no disrespect to anyone.  I really don't.  I am just tired of this constant argument about screening.


Can we talk about something else......Like  Fucking or something?  PLEASE.

NEVER give out last name, address, or place of employment...  NEVER EVER EVER...  TO NO ONE... EVER... get the point?

Then maybe it is time to re-evaluate how you are choosing providers to try and see.  Frankly, the first encounter you described looks to me like poor behavior on her part to pull out additional verification requirements at the last moment and sounds to me like she was making an excuse to not see you without actually pulling a NCNS.  And then something similar happens a week later?!

I don't want to sound insensitive to what happened because it frankly sucks.  But at the same time there's a good many of us who manage pretty regularly to have sessions come off very satisfactorily, even with escorts we haven't seen before.  So there has got to be something different you can do.