Write down your okays and use those ladies as references.... instead of visiting the site just send your new interest an email with info for contacting the ladies who gave you okays (you should ask them first if they're ok with being your reference). Then you can avoid P411 but still hobby with references (provided you have those okays in the first place).
I would add that he could also include the date of the okay so the recipient knows how long ago the provider had seen him. As long as a gent had 2-3 okays and the dates, I do not see that he should have any problem getting a date!!
I would, however, suggest he "write it down" in an email he sends to himself so it's not on paper for wondering eyes to see. Excellent advice, Natalie.
I search that alot for when I go out of town, and to look for who is using the female condom and her web sites. has alot of info. I have 6 oks there now. I would assume that is very easy for the ladies.
I do know they have had a lot of issues lately. There is a lot to stay on top of in this business, but the verification services...P411, RS2K and D-C. Do make life a lot easier for all of us! I for one appreciate their efforts. My website got hacked over the holidays, I did not realize it right away. It was easier to just set up a new one than deal with the issues. And the beat goes on! Play safer, XoClair Jordan
P411 always hassles me about not logging in every month. D-C is MUCH better. One fee, for a lifetime both for men and women alike. I like that. Plus the rating system for the reference I give, over p411 is WAY better. Let's see with p411 you can say ok or not. And it seems as if I am unable to delete an ok on p411 that I need to retract from recent events. With D-C you can have some room to respond with a little more insight. That is a option I prefer. I have had only one problem with a gentleman from p411.....and NEVER a problem with gentlemen that have D-C.
My suggestion, just find an awesome lady (or 3) that fulfill you and let them be your solid regulars. They will always give references and often suggest other ladies they know that you might like. I have sent many of my regular guys to other ladies because I know they are looking for a different flavor then SOFA KING GOOD.
p411 is not the best..... However, screening and safety are.
If you have a hobby email, email yourself your references as Belinda suggested so you don't have to write down or have loose paper around the house. When I ask for references I require their name, email or phone, and if they are not from the area, a site.
Also, if you remember 3 ladies you've seen (we prefer most recent to least recent, so if you have a reference from last month stop using the one from last year), you can find the other info online when you are ready to give out your references.
It is best to have this info available because if you come to me without it, I get annoyed when I have to do the legwork for you. Perhaps other ladies disagree, but it can be hard to find a "Kate, Sara, and Jessica" in MN when there are so many. You wouldn't provide a job reference with just a first name Consider this as if its an opening you are filling
Write down your okays and use those ladies as references.... instead of visiting the site just send your new interest an email with info for contacting the ladies who gave you okays (you should ask them first if they're ok with being your reference). Then you can avoid P411 but still hobby with references (provided you have those okays in the first place).
I've had no issues with it personally. ON it right now actually.
They did post this message the other day:
"We have some interactive Features planned for the site, which will require a Handle if you wish to use them. Features such as Community Forums, ISO Boards, Chat Rooms, Q & As, and Private Messaging. These Features will give you the option to interact with ALL members on the site. "
Maybe with the new upgrades coming, updating the site is causing temporary "outages" to occur.
P411 is still my preferred screening site. From a provider perspective, I find it more user-friendly. I'm on DC too.
You guys are great...Minnesota nice! Which is why I am coming to freeze alongside ya! Hope those fireplaces are working! And the jacuzzi at the Ivy Day Spa, ummmm.... xoClair
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I've had no issues with it personally. ON it right now actually.
They did post this message the other day:
"We have some interactive Features planned for the site, which will require a Handle if you wish to use them. Features such as Community Forums, ISO Boards, Chat Rooms, Q & As, and Private Messaging. These Features will give you the option to interact with ALL members on the site. "
Maybe with the new upgrades coming, updating the site is causing temporary "outages" to occur.
P411 is still my preferred screening site. From a provider perspective, I find it more user-friendly. I'm on DC too.
I have been with datecheck for a long time and have zero issues with the service. I am also glad to see more and more providers using it. It has sufficed very well to those screening me.
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