Dear Providers - and feel free to use the alias to so you can answer honestly.(I am!!!) .. I know many of you enjoy what you do and others do what you do because you feel you may have to and still others may be forced to. To the ones who enjoy what you, please respond.  

I enjoy a session where there is a strong connection. I understand that much of this is a fantasy being played out and each person is playing a role - but there is still the possibility for mutual satisfaction. So if I can have a provider have an orgasm through my efforts, I feel great. I have always tried to observe the reciprocity approach

Others in the hobby may want to just concentrate on themselves and that's great as well. What ever you want - it is your money and you should pursue what ever makes you happy.  

For those of us (and judging by the reviews there are many of us)  that do want to make a connection with you what are the things we can do in and out of the physical realm?

For example - I have found some women like to have the breasts played with a bit more "aggressively" than others. I have found some that love to have their nipples played with gently and still others that have found that a bit irritating.  So how many like a "firm hand" and how many prefer a more gentle approach when playing with breasts?  

When it comes to DATY - it has been my experience that teasing around the clit as opposed to the full on attack seems to be preferred more.  What are your thoughts on this???

When it comes to non sexual, I get we should be respectful, clean and prompt - kind of table stakes there. What advice can you providers give us or provide some examples of things that your clients have done that have helped to set the tone either in advance (when setting up appointments) or when we meet? Typically there isn't a lot of time when the session starts - but any thoughts are welcome.

And remember - this is just a discussion board and we are talking about sex...not world hunger and if Michelle Bachman is crazy or not (she is by the way!!)  

For us clients - feel free to chime in as well with anything you may have done in the past especially around the non sexual stuff... most of the sexual stuff is spelled out in the reviews!!

Thanks for any and all responses --- let the discussions begin and have a great weekend.