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jimmymack100 5 Reviews 325 reads

posted 9 years ago

1 / 14

giving

Not unusual don't get ur shorts in a bundle though when I give a gift I do it because it makes me feel good to give to someone I like. The problem with some escorts is they either don't appreciate them or take them for granted like on valentines day a few years ago I was at a providers apt and there were so many flowers it looked like a funeral in other words I realized I am just one of many, a face in the crowd.I still felt good about giving though but I realized I'm just a paycheck. PS. Also learned to never give flowers lol

Posted By: Newell

Looking for new provider for a regular thing weekly most be 25yrs light skin n great shape I'm a very giving kind nice guy that gives alot of gifts previous provider just don't appreciate me after over 2yrs of regular n so many gifts way more then should give her no respect from her she don't know how good she had it what u all think

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 267 reads

posted 9 years ago

2 / 14

Re: giving

Were they lupins?

Posted By: jimmymack100

on valentines day a few years ago I was at a providers apt and there were so many flowers it looked like a funeral

vorlon 119 Reviews 195 reads

posted 9 years ago

3 / 14

I think at the core it is a P4P relationship

It's important to always remember that and one of the reasons is that there are some providers who will gladly take advantage of guys who don't.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 183 reads

posted 9 years ago

4 / 14

You can't buy love.

Most people react negatively to people who shower them with gifts/money in exchange for love.

I believe the analysis is correct, she was ungrateful. Nevertheless the strategy is doomed. There are three types of responses 1.) Detest you for trying to buy affection, but out of greed take the money. 2.) Feel uneasy about your trying to buy affection, but out of unwillingness to hurt you, take the money. 3.) Feel you are a loser and reject the money and run for their lives.

Give gifts to those who earn it. Especially if they are in need, in order to maintain their self-image and dignity.

Unearned gifts signal some other agenda, and it usually involves buying affection. That never works

TalonTed 91 Reviews 191 reads

posted 9 years ago

5 / 14

Fuck-Pay-Leave or Pay-Fuck-Leave

Learn your lessons and move on.

mrhuck 15 Reviews 121 reads

posted 9 years ago

6 / 14

Re: You can't buy love.

Thank's for your wisdom L_P

jimmymack100 5 Reviews 152 reads

posted 9 years ago

7 / 14

don't be bitter

You probably had some good times at least it's not a divorce so you didn't lose half of what you have.No doubt she'll miss you and everything you provided. Wondering who the next Prince charming is when she answer the door has to get old fast along with all the pitfalls in escorting.Not to mention the diminishing returns as you age as a escort.So move on my boy just be a little more jaded.

OldTimerB 45 Reviews 81 reads

posted 9 years ago

8 / 14

Re: You can't buy love.

I'm sure you must have but did you give her things that girls typically love? Diamond rings, cars, nice clothes, shoes, jewelry, perfumes, etc....

Or did you only give her practical things for her to do her job better?

Posted By: Newell

All gifts I gave was things she didn't have pots n pans towels warm coat boots sheets cleaning supplies stuff she needed to do her job better n nicer for me when has same sheets two weeks later so I got her sheets

Posted By: lester_prairie

Most people react negatively to people who shower them with gifts/money in exchange for love.

I believe the analysis is correct, she was ungrateful. Nevertheless the strategy is doomed. There are three types of responses 1.) Detest you for trying to buy affection, but out of greed take the money. 2.) Feel uneasy about your trying to buy affection, but out of unwillingness to hurt you, take the money. 3.) Feel you are a loser and reject the money and run for their lives.

Give gifts to those who earn it. Especially if they are in need, in order to maintain their self-image and dignity.

Unearned gifts signal some other agenda, and it usually involves buying affection. That never works.