Decided to TOFTT after some back channel intel on Ashley.  We chatted a few times on the phone and agreed to meet last weekend.  We agreed on a time and I called right before I left to confirm.  She gave me vague directions close to her incall where I was supposed to call her after I arrived at an agreed upon time.

After a 30 minute drive I found her general location and called again (when we agreed) for the final directions...First I got her voicemail and then she just turned off her phone after I tried calling umpteen times.

I am posting this now because I wanted to give her a few days to call/txt me back or at least apologize for completely wasting my time.  As you can already guess, I never heard anything back.  Maybe I spooked her, maybe she got a better offer, maybe she wanted to party with her friends.  It really doesn't matter why because all she had to do call or txt back.  I deserve that.

I really don't understand why providers think this is totally acceptable behavior.  Is this now becoming the norm?  I still have yet to ever NCNS any provider.

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It's always been a problem but I don't think it is any better or worse than usual.

I don't think it's the norm either, but I also don't think there any reason why she couldn't
have let you know 'something came up'...No matter how lame the excuse, and we've all
heard some pretty lame ones, it's still better than wasting time waiting for something
that's not gonna happen.

Shortly after I left I got a text from her telling me that she was not the lady in the ad because she was out of town but that she was available for the same rate. I asked her to text me a pic, which to my surprise she did. She was overweight- not bad but I was there to see a much hotter lady so I declined. I had driven a long way too. I think that that was her plan all along. I'm sorry for your experience. NCNS is just not acceptable but it is a sign of lack of maturity. But if we based our choices only on the mature ones, we would miss some great talent and beauty.

So...maybe this is why she still has no reviews lol?

wingman1346 will back me up on this one. If you think she might be flaky, try calling Rosa who has been posting ads now for several months all saying she will be in town for just a short while. Basically once you call her she will never answer her phone again.

I just wonder if sometimes some girls post ads to basically seek attention from men? At least this girl was somewhat honest in coming up with an excuse that the girl in question was "out of town". IMO it begs the question whether that girl in the ads really does exist, and this is the way she operates.

I have to say it seems to me that there is always some question mark when really attractive women post ads for weeks, months even, and not a single review comes in.

very attractive women who post everyday for months (or longer) w/o a single review.  We must somehow think "wow, maybe I can discover her".

Going forward, I think I may avoid these young, unreviewed hotties who post all the time.  I can think of several on BP who have caught my eye.

The rule is if it looks to good to be true it usually is. BP is full of fake pictures and unreviewed girls. Most are in their 20's. There are plenty of fantastic, reviewed providers here to keep a hobbiest busy for a lifetime. The only way to combat the Bad providers is do your homework and DONT support them.

Swears on her life that all the pictures she's posted are recent and actually her..
But she doesn't seem to have ever delivered a positive reviewed performance.