Minnesota
Is there an order to your cunnilingus technique or is it just chaos?
My fav extra curricular activity. There’s nothing like pleasing a woman into back bending, toe curling, vocal producing, hair grabbing orgasm.
Asking permission first. May I?
Lfk to start, moving down to neck and shoulders to breast and nipple teasing, kissing the side with a tongue tickle then inner thighs to create a little anticipation. A few more kisses to the outside of your sweet lips then a moist tongue to the entire clit with a little pressure and hold for a few moments to start. Slow deliberate tongue and lip kissing, moving down a little lower to try to stimulate your g spot, my tongue may be a little longer than some. Continue until hip gyrations begin to occur. With perseverance,
the O is on the way.
Try not to use fingers unless asked for, some like it, most don’t in my experience. I’ve had success with that technique, not 100% but acceptable.
Are we constrained by human nature or these novelty handcuffs?
Human nature. The idea of cuff confinement, ropes and the like, not my thing. Unless you want me to tie you up 
happy to oblige.
hey looky, great post and i love that you are willing to bare all to the boards (just hope miggs and snafu do not jump on here and continue their shit) and there goes another great thread ..........
Jersey.... I love your posts, they stimulate thought and keep us from killing each other. And besides as a poor gigalo the postings on these threads is still free and i am all about sharing info as long as the thread does not get highjacked as they go on their rants against each other !! so lets go
hand jobs do not do much for me, any lower body injury actually includes the manhandle so playing whack-a-mole is just that, and if the lady assumes our flailing on the table is in enjoyment, they must be a little bit more attentive, more intuitive or listen when we say 'slow down'. That statement may apply to anyone old and not even injured, that has lost some of our youthful sensory responses, so ladies you might want to consider that as you assess your client. Slow pace tease or light touch and brushing, grazing the unit with one hand (or kisses when we get there), while the rest of the body is being touched, will be 100 times more exciting to me and any pressure with not much movement will send me over the top ( or as far up as it goes) (for private conversation only) Remember our unit can be used as that gorgeous dildo that you all dream about........ and as some of us just lay there ....you go at it
The mystery of ReverseCG is simple....if you have lost the ability to stand behind in a chair, on a bed, or anywhere for that matter, That action is replaced by a laying position with the lady climbing on reverse and walla....... doggie supine WOW best ever! Again I shall just lay there and you do the work.
The question of DATY ?? after asking permission, I have always found that just asking for coaching and guidance has always given me the best responses sooooooooo 'Its your play, you be in charge'.
As for cuffs ...never been into them so I shall pass but the lube is never really needed if you are good at DATY cuz if you receive the response that you want, she should be wet as hell and if not a juicy little session of spit as you follow directions, should work just fine.
Ok looky, lets see where this goes cuz everyone that reads Jersey's threads, knows what to expect but the ladies and schedulers that continue to ghost our messages and are really all about numbers, will never know.........their loss I guess.