I emailed a provider my references for a possible date.  After a day or two, she emailed me back saying I was verified and she will see me.  We finally got our schedule to agree, and I emailed back confirming date, but I asked about the AMOUNT too.  Tomorrow is the date and I have not heard back from her. She said she would talk to me Tuesday.   Question is: Did I blow it by asking about the donation?

Did her ad and/or website have her rates listed?  Some ladies don't want any discussion of rates; they expect you to get that information from their advetising.  Of course, if it wasn't there either then you didn't have much choice but to ask.  Hope it works out for you.

Her ad did not have any amount listed.  She has a couple of reviews and has a different amount in her profiles.  I did not want to put her and me in an uncomfortable situation having the wrong amount.

That would make it hard to know what is right.

Some ladies are very skittish about rates.  If you spooked her.  You will know if you don't hear from her before you scheduled date.

I wouldnt think its a big deal.  If she went through the effort to verify you a discussion of rates shouldn't be an issue.  Bepends on if she actually verified you or not.

some ladies are more comfortable discussing rates specially after your verfied, other will not discuss it or activites period. So No, you did not ask anything wrong, presuming her rate was in her ad.

I've had the same thing happen to me on at least a couple of past occasions. The reason I tried to confirm the price is because the provider had one price listed on 1 site and a different on another. The only thing I can think of is that the provider thought I was trying to "low-ball" her because I inquired about the lower of the two prices.

First (and without just your side of the story)....you did nothing wrong.  Here's how it goes with me:

Rates SHOULD have been on her website!  With two different rates?!?!?....you were justified in asking.  I get nervous if a first-timer asks me about rates in emails and especially in person.  Session ends.....end of story.

General knowledge for you:  With a serious provider....NEVER talk about compensation!!!!  Always KNOW beforehand (which in your case, you didn't).  You were completely justified in this case.  Let it go.

I have walked away from "potentials" when compensation has been mentioned.  Tis not worth the wrong kind of "bracelets" upon my wrist(s) from an email or in person.  

You were in a tough spot.  Sorry.

You did nothing wrong.

First (and without just your side of the story)....you did nothing wrong.  Here's how it goes with me:

Rates SHOULD have been on her website!  With two different rates?!?!?....you were justified in asking.  I get nervous if a first-timer asks me about rates in emails and especially in person.  Session ends.....end of story.

General knowledge for you:  With a serious provider....NEVER talk about compensation!!!!  Always KNOW beforehand (which in your case, you didn't).  You were completely justified in this case.  Let it go.

I have walked away from "potentials" when compensation has been mentioned.  Tis not worth the wrong kind of "bracelets" upon my wrist(s) from an email or in person.  

You were in a tough spot.  Sorry.

You did nothing wrong.

of a provider getting the bracelets because she wrote her rates on an email...as most providers mention one pay for companionship(which is not illegal)

She replied back and the date is still on...  No mention of amount though$  Thanks for all the helpful support.

What's a fellow to do in his situation?