I believe that sharing food or drink is a very symbolic act that can take us back to our more primitive roots and instincts. Eating or drinking together is sharing something going into your body with another person, which is also a step toward intimacy. It seems like the best natural "ice-breaker" that helps us toward recognizing each other as a kindred spirit. It does not have to be wine, the act of giving to one another of a small gift of subsistence is a gentle and open way to approach creating a relationship.
I was going to do a vintage post until I read the thread started by pppusher. Took me right out of the mood. Still I must say that I have a renewed respect for the gents who stepped up and gave pusher ‘what for’. We need a holds barred for this person? How about “barred holes” for this person? I think that he already took care of that. Lol To those of you who went to bat for us girls, I should knock off 50. ~wink~
Now on to “funner” things……who out there thinks that a glass of wine (or any booze) is appropriate for a session? Personally I don’t drink outside of my personal bedroom, but I don’t mind those who do. Should I have a bottle of wine available at my incall location? Red or White? Sweet or Dry? I think that I and a lot of my cohorts have cut back on some obvious amenities (including dress and candles) after last summer’s scare. I used to greet visitors in sexy lingerie and scented candles. I stopped doing that for first time visitors because even though my screening process pretty much eliminates LE getting to me…….nothing is fool-proof except the IRS eventually getting to you. ~Dang, I’m on a roll~
Oh and by the way………I do give references. In fact, I check out the provider requesting the reference before I send you to her. It is also my practice of late, to let you know that I’ve given the reference. It’s the least that I can do to protect us both, and perhaps net a return visit from you.
Although I don't drink, if I'm hosting, I will usually ask the lady if she would like some wine, and I get some non-alcoholic wine for myself. It's basically grape juice with a cork. Actually, some of them are pretty tasty. If it's a dinner date, I see nothing wrong with a pre-meal cocktail, or a pre-tail cockmeal, for that matter.
I believe that sharing food or drink is a very symbolic act that can take us back to our more primitive roots and instincts. Eating or drinking together is sharing something going into your body with another person, which is also a step toward intimacy. It seems like the best natural "ice-breaker" that helps us toward recognizing each other as a kindred spirit. It does not have to be wine, the act of giving to one another of a small gift of subsistence is a gentle and open way to approach creating a relationship.
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