I was just thinking about fetishes. Ya know, they are not just for dungeons any more, lol! Definition: a form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body; "common male fetishes are breasts, legs, hair, shoes, and underwear".
It's easy to understand getting turned on by cleavage, or pretty eyes, or a nice round booty...but what about less typical fetishes? Those of you who know me also know I have a few things that really revv my engine and some of these do not require a private space to be enjoyed! I've heard from other ladies and gentlemen some of their "atypical" fetishes, and got to thinking...what else is out there?
Examples of things that turn some people on which can be seen anywhere on any given day, or turn you on when it happens: --gloves --shiny material (satin, silk) --glasses --women wearing men's shirts --women wearing sport jerseys --the sound of water lapping on a boat --thunderstorms --scents other than perfume... if this applies to you, what is it?
What are your particlar turn ons? You can list thigh highs and no bra if you like, but I'm wondering if there are other less typical fetishes out there.
Ditto me! Love the tee shirt, no bra look. Glasses are kinda sexy too on the right girl. Also have always loved baseball caps and pony tails for some strange reason. Whats up with that?
Love watching the motion of unbound breasts beneath a t-shirt, especially if her nipples are erect. Throw in the right pair of glasses and it can be devastating!
I love a woman in sexy lingerie. I find a lady in lingerie more sexy than a naked woman. Nothing better than watching a lady undress to matching bra and panties. Show me a woman in a lace teddy and I'll have a tent pole in my pants.
I love having sex with a woman when she is wearing wearing lingerie. Wow, just thinking about it has me, well...
Oh heck these days it doesn't take much for me than a well-dressed good looking women in public. All of the women at work from young to middle age to older dress like slobs and don't care one whit for their appearence. What I like in a provider is someone that can dress nice for me so I can do some unwrapping.
Wendy, the way you wrote that definition and question made me realize I do have a fetish. It would be a woman wearing a headband or hair-pulling-back thingy of any kind and it's because it makes me think of things a gal does to prepare for a facial! No wonder I get so damn excited watching women's volleyball.
I think a fetish is more when something not typically sexual becomes eroticly stimulating. Nonetheless, erect nipples that can be seen thru layers of clothing is a special turn-on for me. I used to play poker with an Asian woman whose nips even pushed thru her black leather jacket, now that was hot.
A woman in a short, loose fitting sun dress ( she has to have the legs for it). Every time I see a lady wearing one I just can't help fantasizing about running my hands under her dress up her thighs ...... excuse me for a minute.
Foot fetish here. Its a great time to be a foot fetish guy because it seems like women these days are usually wearing some type of open-toed shoe or sandal! Lots to see I do not have a desire for using a woman's feet for stroking the knob. My preference is to give a foot massage and feel her feet on my legs during sex. If in mish position I like if she rests the bottom of her feet against my calves or thighs. Doggy style I like if she positions her feet over my calves. If in cowgirl I like if she sets her feet over my legs. The last girl I reviewed did all that without me even asking, which was REAL nice because I'm always to bashful to say anything to a provider or any other girl in those moments. Come to think of it, I've never revealed that to anyone, although I'm sure a few women I've known caught on after they noticed that I would give them a foot massage anytime I had the chance. One woman even went out and bought massaging oil and gave it to me to use on her after a while (not a provider, a civie girl). Not just any foot will do, though. I do have my preference, just like an ass man would have a preference for a certain shape ass. I didn't always have this fetish. It was developed in my early 20's when I was with a girl for a few years. Everytime we had sex she would use her feet in some way or another in the way I mentioned earlier. I got used to it, and when the relationship was over and I had moved on none of the women I met afterward ever did anything like that. I started to yearn for it, and eventually I started to look at women's feet, wondering how nice they would feel if I could experience them the same way I experienced that girl's feet many times years ago. Men are expected to be drawn to a woman's breasts or butt. So I'm not self-conscious about touching any of those parts in the heat of passion. But I assume a woman would be put off if I were to show her in some way that I would enjoy touching her feet. So I keep it to myself.
Thanks everyone! I forgot how fun it can be to chat here!
A couple thoughts.... You never know until you ask! I have a blog about the "Four Agreements" and one of the four is "Don't Take Things Personally" and another is "Don't Make Assumptions." Of course we all know how easy it is to keep those agreements (NOT!) so it's really easy to "assume" that lingirie is only for removing, not staying on, or that someone would be "offended" if we appreciate something about them that is a little less than "traditional" (like feet, or a headband!). I say... speak up! If it's "too weird" for someone, woulldn't you rather know before you meet, and maybe spend your playtime with someone who does appreciate or is happy to please you in your own special way? Just my thoughts! And if someone does actually say, "no thanks" well... just move on, don't waste any emotion on taking it personally just find a partner you can connect with.
Hope you all have a terrific weekend! Keep the list going! XO Wendy P.S. I love being your fetish, sexy!
guys and gals mine is smell. I remember walking home from what would be my 1st wife and smelling my fingers after a long evening of teenage (non clinton sex). God I love to wake up to the smell of sex in the morning. that and the smell of steel tl.
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the business outfit that obviously has something hot underneath because you can see either see a little lace peeking out somewhere or the heels are just slightly too high...
Perhaps this is not common knowledge, but the vagina is lined with skin similar to that of the arm pit area. So those who enjoy smelly armpits might naturally enjoy a sweaty woman elsewhere.
Myself, I enjoy the mom next door who has been working in the yard all day long wearing short nylon running shorts. The heat, sweat, and nylon all combine to make a wonderful place to camp for the next couple of hours. . .
Sorry I'm coming so late to this thread but the subject reminds me of a deep dark secret I've needed to share. A couple of years ago (probably during the 2008 presdiential elections), I experienced something like "anger sex" which was incredible. Somehow, while going back and forth before setting up an appointment with a never-before-seen provider, it became apparent that we had very different politcal views--hr: ultra-liberal; me: somehat conservative. Small talk somehow turned to social issues, candidates, elections, government spending, stuff like that. Actually turned into a heated argument but we were already together, the deal was make and we did the appointment. Something about the disagreements and political passion carried over into the other kind of passion and things were incredible. Hard to explain--somewhat adversarial but still with mutual respect? I've love to recapture that sometime but its probably one of those spontaneous moments that can't be duplicationed. Weird, huh? I now find Sunday morning TV news-talk shows somewhat erotic. Please don't judge me . . .
Mine's high-contrast hair colors. A few blonde streaks in dark hair, some red or blue or green streaks in blonde hair. Add geeky glasses and I'm in heaven.
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