Everybody wants to be as sure as possible that they are making the right decision, especially when it comes to something that is a luxury not a necessity. Reviews, in this sense, can function as an essential source of information. They can provide insight into the experience, offer a sense of credibility, and build a sense of trust between providers and new clients. Reviews can build a reputation, which is something that can be difficult to do in today's climate. After all, if others have had an enjoyable experience, it’s likely that you will too. Although, clients must remember that despite a provider having a history of giving a certain set of services, adjustments may have to be made based on factors such as client attitude, hygiene, and physical capabilities, etc. In spite of what people may have been told, it's not "one size fits all" (lol - I crack myself up).
And yet, these reviews can be a double edged sword. While they can help clients make informed decisions and build a providers reputation, there are also some legitimate safety and security concerns to consider. Some providers have seen their reviews used against them in divorce proceedings and custody hearings. Sex Workers, with regular 9-5 jobs have been suspended from work pending investigations based on THESE reviews because employers often use the "preponderance of evidence" standard, meaning that even if the evidence isn't concrete, it could still be a violation of their employment contract, usually a morality clause. The employer doesn't have to read the reviews; there is enough general information that is accessible to the public, without a VIP account that provides information such as ad locations, social media handles, blogs, physical descriptors, categories of what's provided, etc.
All this to say, it's a double edged sword. Do I think they are necessary to be successful? Absolutely not, as there are more and more clients who are shying away from places like TER and P411. And yet, are reviews helpful? Absolutely and it's because of TER I've been able to build up a regular clientele base. Two things can be true at once.
-- Modified on 10/15/2023 11:57:34 PM