So I am fairly loyal when it comes to seeing providers (when I find one I connect with) from time to time I'll try someone new which was the case last spring. (keeping her name out of this for respect. I had reached out to a newer girl that had pretty good reviews. Had a hard time making our schedules work. Then the stars aligned but she had a friend with. So I agreed to see both of them. They arrived, her friend was not too bad looking but just didn't connect with her. However there was a very strong connection with the girl I wanted to see one on one. Her and I got together a few times just here and I. Had great sex and great conversions. Our communication started happening much more frequently with her initiating it more often than me.  Simple things like good morning, Have a great day, How was your day. This has lead hanging out talking about our days, having dinner together, me teaching her how to better handle a firearm and more. Now it has progressed to hanging out watching movies, sleepovers and absolutory amazing sex. She no longer will accept any type of compensation, she said she really just enjoys being around me, feels safe with me. I am not sure what to think of this situation. Have any of you experienced anything similar?  

Sounds like she want you to put a ring on it.

… for your sake, and hers.

Are you ok having her as your girlfriend, wherever that may lead (which may be nowhere)?  If so, enjoy these times of “amazing sex” etc. while they last.

If you’re not comfortable with her being your girlfriend, do the right thing and be straight with her about it. Don’t lead her on.

And if you haven’t talked with her yet about where you both see this relationship going, you should do that asap.  
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P.S. I haven’t experienced anything similar, as that’s not why I see providers. If I sense a provider wants to move towards a GF/BF relationship, I stop seeing her. I’ve been platonic friends with a few providers, but the sex is always transactional.

Then, you and she need to have a conversation about where this is going.

The ladies we see are actually real human beings with wants, needs, and desires of their own.

I have had such relationships in this life style, none of them ended badly, and I treasure the experiences.

It totally depends on what you want, what she wants, and what you are willing to accept to make such a relationship work out if that's something you both want.

Are you going to be friends with benefits? something deeper?

You'll have to figure these things out for yourself.

If you decide to embark down a more personal path there is something you must absolutely do.

Be honest with yourself, and her.

Will she continue working?  Are you able to accept the fact she's having sex with other people or because you have something "special" will that change things for you?  Can you make that adjustment?

I can, but I know I am in a very small minority in that regard.

Will you continue in this lifestyle despite being in a more intimate relationship with someone who knows this lifestyle, and will you be open and honest with her about what you are doing?

It's a lot like any normal relationship, because it is, you just have a few more wrinkles to pay attention to.

If you want to make an attempt at this I would suggest trying it but my advice would be that both of you be very honest, and very clear, about what this thing means between the two of you, and set ground rules for both of you right up front about what you are both comfortable with and that works for both of you.

Because as I stated, the ladies we see are actually real human beings with wants, needs, and desires of their own, and any relationship ultimately works best with setting ground rules for both of you and being honest with each other.

And for Keerists sake man!  Enjoy it while you can and don't push and ruin something amazing!

You are 100% correct and I have always treated them like any other human. If your kind and nice to me you will get the same in return. The whole thing has taken me by surprise. I know she does want to have this as a life long career and she has other interests for work but I believe that she is addicted to the cash she makes.
Theirs a lot that her and I need to be open and honest with each other.  

Did you experiences start in a similar way?

From a provider's standpoint I can give my two cents. I am not sure if I would say that anyone is ever "addicted" to the cash we make, but of course it is very nice and makes life very comfortable. If you had the ability to make enough money in a few days to pay all your bills that month would you really turn it down? It really comes down to you being comfortable with what she does and if you are emotionally secure enough to handle it. It sounds like she does like you and wants to be in the gf/bf realm, but I can tell you from personal experience nothing will crush that faster than if you encourage her to leave this profession if she does not want to. There is nothing wrong with both of you setting up rules to make you both feel comfortable, but if you think she should find another job to show she "really loves you", no. 100% will not work. She will resent you. Even more so if the reason you met her was through her current profession. It takes a strong woman to be a provider, but it takes an even stronger man to stand by her and support her with her chosen work.

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