Has anyone out there used the site Ashleymadison.com?  Wondering wether it is legit or not.  I don't have a PM because I have been inactive lately but looking to get back into the hobby again.

I've never checked out the site, but I will say I am tired of seeing the commercials for the site that precede so much of the Internet porn I try to watch!!!

Like most "adult" dating sites, it is pretty much a waste of time for men in general.  There are a few hundred men for every woman on the site, and most of the profiles are pretty outdated. I did talk to a few women, and they claim they get hundreds of emails a day, so pretty hard to be  picked out of the crowd. I tried it for a while, hoping to meet a new sugarbaby, but it was lots of effort for NO reward.

And while she was not all that bad looking, we got to the hotel and the minute I removed her skirt the stinky kitty drove me out of there. No wonder her husband didn't fuck her.

Aside from the poor ratio of men to women, that site has "fakes" who make you expend your credits. I was told it was the site owner himself doing it.
I have little doubt that their practices vary much from one State to another.

I think they are legit, but for most of us gentlemen its a waste of time.  
If you are a good looking young stud, it may be worth a try.

you should have brought with you some clitorox or suggested a shower. I hate when they don't pass the finger test

. . . there are opportunities to be had on SugarDaddy....

Having fakes would not surprise me.  I've noticed with online dating sites that immediately after signing up I tend to get alot of activity, but then it dies down.  And if I don't login to the site for a while and then go back, mysteriously I get sudden activity again.  That has always made me suspicious of fake profiles that are used to constantly lure members, mainly male members, into buying up credits.  I know there are legitimate members on those sites, but I don't believe that the site's overall practices are legitimate.

been on there on and off for a couple of years,,, most women on there just want the fantasy -- chatting like crazy, but nevera ctually go the distince and meet. Had one very hot meeting a couple of years ago -- lady met me in a park, took me into the bushes and had me handcuff her to a tree, and well, let's just say she had a skirt on...

Try plentyoffish...it's free.

does plentyoffish ever require $$?  Many of these sites allow signing up for free but require $$ to actually connect with anyone.