With some review searching you should be able to find providers that suit you.  Be aware though that without references they may want a lot of personal information about you.  Some will want that regardless.

[email protected] if anybody is kind enough to sent the messages I can’t read to there

I have been out of the hobby because of the once in a 100 years pandemic.   Surprising a lot of people still were in the hobby.   So after being vaccinated, I came back to find a market that is absolutely saturated with guys who are looking for providers and thus, the providers can charge premium dollars and ask for two references from within the past 12 months.    
My last two go to providers have seemly left the business so I have no references.  I got a $40 gift card from Best Buy to gain access to VIP to scout out who I wanted to see.  I can tell you after contacting over 10 ladies, none are willing to see me without references.  Thus, I am going to get burner phone and chase some of the independent ladies who all seem to use text.    I've seen a couple of national ladies, so hopefully they will come back in town and remember me from my email address.  Good Luck

I am an independent provider. I’m mid 30’s and have been in the industry for 7 years. You can read my reviews to see if I would be a hood fit. I have some other ways I screen clients so if you don’t have a reference, we can find a different way to get you screened

I'll still vouch for you lol
It's VERY rare but I always do remember some of the older gentlemen around here 😉

This is a very common issue that is coming up lately.  Message me and we can talk about it. I understand the frustration and I actually appreciate the discipline it took for many of you men to stay INACTIVE for so long.  Honorable.