For you hobbyists and providers out there, why do you participate in the hobby?
For some it might be a pretty easy answer, for others it might be more complicated and involved.
For me it’s easier than dating. Being old widower in my early 40s it’s just easier and less of a hassle than dating. I was married at 25 and a widower at 26. Even though the death of my wife happened almost 20 years ago most women that I’ve dated in that time since have had a difficulty or an uncomfortableness with the fact that I am a widower. Trust me it’s not like I lead with it on the 1st date, there is an appropriate amount of time and mutual comfortableness that exists before I share this information. In fact I rarely discuss it with most people. Most women treat me one of two ways when I divulge that I’m a widower.
1. “Oh I’m sorry…” Then they think I must be broke and they try to fix me. Drives me nuts, I’m no more “broke” or dysfunctional than the next person.
2. “Oh I’m sorry….” Then they think that I’m damaged goods and they run for the hills. Again, drives me nuts.
So what’s the story with others? My story is not intended to be a downer or garner sympathy, but rather to give you some background.
where else can I fuck beautiful, young girls/ladies? I'm old and sure not "god's gift to the ladies in the looks department. I'm single and don't want to date in the "real life", just to crazy and time consuming.
I get a thrill (high) with the first date meeting a lady. I'm very choosy with the ladies I see, and every time with a new girl or a return visit is a One-in-a-lifetime.
Now you got me thinking, I owe the ladies a BIG thank you! Thank you ladies!!!!
I had my first professional lady when I was 18 and never stopped. I like the variety. I had relationships with women through the years before I got married, but I always had some time with providers on the side.
I wish I'd done what Pollenbroker did, and I'll go farther than helper_helping: No matter how young and fit you are, it's still a pain to date.
I'll honestly say that in addition to being absolutely beautiful, the professional ladies that I've met so far have on average been more mature (keeping a schedule and communicating effectively), safer in their habits, and more honest. Some have even been personally warmer.
I am far from being a god, but would never guess that concidering the way I am treated by the lovely ladies of Minnesota. The smile on my face and the spring in my step on the way back home is worth every penny spent. Its hard find that consistently on regular dates outside the hobby world.
I've heard the expression that "he couldn't get laid in a whorehouse with a fistful of hundred dollar bills" Well I'm proof that that's wrong.I'm not that attractive either but at least these wonderful ladies make me feel as though I am.
Jer, from a mature woman's POV: a gentleman's appearance is low on the list in comparison. It certainly doesn't hurt, but in all honesty it is the way I am treated that is rewarded. In fact, the respectful & playful manner with which I am treated makes a man very attractive in my eyes.
It is my opinion that physical appearance is not as important to women as it is to men. A man needs not be Adonis-like in appearance to be extraordinarily hot in my eyes. If one knows how to treat me, and touch me, among other things, I am captivated and he has my full attention.
I participate for the sex. Initially, that is why I started. I was in a 7.5 year relationship and the last 5 years were sexLESS. Crazy thing is I was in my 20s and loved sex (still do). No go for me. I moved into my own bedroom after begging for sex, began to masturbate in bed in the morning and my bf at the time Hated that I masturbated in bed and told me emphatically so.
Now that I am running multiple businesses, I partake in the hobby to supplement my income and for AMAZING sex. FYI, I only have amazing sex. Why or how you say?... Easy, I am selective and continue to sleep with only the best.
Good question OP.
Real Good, Samantha Good
Posted By: buck1848
For you hobbyists and providers out there, why do you participate in the hobby?
For some it might be a pretty easy answer, for others it might be more complicated and involved.
For me it’s easier than dating. Being old widower in my early 40s it’s just easier and less of a hassle than dating. I was married at 25 and a widower at 26. Even though the death of my wife happened almost 20 years ago most women that I’ve dated in that time since have had a difficulty or an uncomfortableness with the fact that I am a widower. Trust me it’s not like I lead with it on the 1st date, there is an appropriate amount of time and mutual comfortableness that exists before I share this information. In fact I rarely discuss it with most people. Most women treat me one of two ways when I divulge that I’m a widower.
1. “Oh I’m sorry…” Then they think I must be broke and they try to fix me. Drives me nuts, I’m no more “broke” or dysfunctional than the next person.
2. “Oh I’m sorry….” Then they think that I’m damaged goods and they run for the hills. Again, drives me nuts.
So what’s the story with others? My story is not intended to be a downer or garner sympathy, but rather to give you some background.
Like most I have more than one reason. first I love the ladies I have met. Nothing more exciting than undressing a beautiful girl for the first time. some exceptions but mostly great experiences. I never had any trouble getting a date, the issue for me is the hidden costs that will follow. every woman trades affection for something, with professionals you know from the start what the cost is. it is fair honest and upfront. I am there because I love to be with a beautiful woman, she is there to make a living. when I leave she owes me nothing and I owe her nothing. almost 100% of the time we both had a great time and no one ends up rejected or stalked. Second reason is the entire relationship is our secret. I am not a public figure but disgruntled ex girlfriends are something I need to avoid. I like the fact that I can have a blissful experience with a lady and then see her at a restaurant a day later and only acknowledge with a wink, no need to explain anything to anyone. There are guys who think of the ladies as Rental, I am offended by that and by them. I think most of us really appreciate the wonderful offer. I always try to leave with a little kiss and I say from my heart "thank you for allowing me to be with you " it is always a memory that I will treasure.
That is the farewell until next time of THE perfect gentleman!!
Wonderful...
Astrid
Posted By: cheyen
Like most I have more than one reason. first I love the ladies I have met. Nothing more exciting than undressing a beautiful girl for the first time. some exceptions but mostly great experiences. I never had any trouble getting a date, the issue for me is the hidden costs that will follow. every woman trades affection for something, with professionals you know from the start what the cost is. it is fair honest and upfront. I am there because I love to be with a beautiful woman, she is there to make a living. when I leave she owes me nothing and I owe her nothing. almost 100% of the time we both had a great time and no one ends up rejected or stalked. Second reason is the entire relationship is our secret. I am not a public figure but disgruntled ex girlfriends are something I need to avoid. I like the fact that I can have a blissful experience with a lady and then see her at a restaurant a day later and only acknowledge with a wink, no need to explain anything to anyone. There are guys who think of the ladies as Rental, I am offended by that and by them. I think most of us really appreciate the wonderful offer. I always try to leave with a little kiss and I say from my heart "thank you for allowing me to be with you " it is always a memory that I will treasure.
I wouldn't say I consider a lady a "rental" but, I don't put any more significance on our time then the fact that is was an arrangement. We both came to an agreement, fulfilled our obligations hopefully and now it's time to part ways. Might end in conversation, a hug, a kiss, it could just be a mere farewell.
I set up a date with only one goal in mind, getting my rocks off. Typically the secondary things like sharing a drink, conversing, etc., those just get in the way of me spilling another cup.
Posted By: cheyen
Like most I have more than one reason. first I love the ladies I have met. Nothing more exciting than undressing a beautiful girl for the first time. some exceptions but mostly great experiences. I never had any trouble getting a date, the issue for me is the hidden costs that will follow. every woman trades affection for something, with professionals you know from the start what the cost is. it is fair honest and upfront. I am there because I love to be with a beautiful woman, she is there to make a living. when I leave she owes me nothing and I owe her nothing. almost 100% of the time we both had a great time and no one ends up rejected or stalked. Second reason is the entire relationship is our secret. I am not a public figure but disgruntled ex girlfriends are something I need to avoid. I like the fact that I can have a blissful experience with a lady and then see her at a restaurant a day later and only acknowledge with a wink, no need to explain anything to anyone. There are guys who think of the ladies as Rental, I am offended by that and by them. I think most of us really appreciate the wonderful offer. I always try to leave with a little kiss and I say from my heart "thank you for allowing me to be with you " it is always a memory that I will treasure.
I participate for the sex. Initially, that is why I started. I was in a 7.5 year relationship and the last 5 years were sexLESS. Crazy thing is I was in my 20s and loved sex (still do). No go for me. I moved into my own bedroom after begging for sex, began to masturbate in bed in the morning and my bf at the time Hated that I masturbated in bed and told me emphatically so.
So let me understand... this guy was married to a beautiful, sexy woman who loves sex, she BEGGED him for sex, and he ignored her desires to the point she had to move to her own bedroom and take matters into her own hand (so to speak)??
(Sigh) ... add this to the things we see and hear that simply boggle the mind.
Sexless marriage led me to the hobby and finding out it is simpler (and cheaper) than dating has kept me coming back. I became tired of panning for gold when I can just go to the jewelry store.
In a civvie relationship, the rules of the game are usually unclear and ambiguous....does she do it on the first date? The third? Does she spend the night? Do I have to take her to Belle Vie or will she settle for drive-thru at Mickey D's? And once the deed is done, what are the expectations?
In the hobby, all of this is up front and out in the open BEFORE the date. And no expectations afterwards, unless they're negotiated.
Girlfriends and especially wives often seem to get bored with sex and their participation becomes lackluster. The lovely ladies I see now give me their full attention and the sex is MUCH better.
..to deny yourself the opportunity with beautiful women. A famous local author just lost his life today at the age of 47. We may live until 90 or we may find ourselves exiting this world in the prime of our lives like he did. Why ignore your desires?
I've done it because dating stresses me out. I've been in several long term relationships that all ended with lasting scars. Yes, it's important to get back up and try again but it's also important to take some time to reflect on the failure. I'm not exactly an Abercrombie model (not hideous either though) and a bit of an introvert so it's not a snap to pick up a woman at a bar. Despite all of that, I still want to be with women who makes me feel like a king even if it's for a short time
I have the additive gene. I’m a adrenaline junky addicted to caffeine, nicotine and might as well call sex sexine. When I have one of those toe curling orgasms it is the best high I can get. I get tired of masturbating to get my fix.
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