So the other night I saw an ad on bp for a provider near me. Never any providers near me so I send a text she says she's available but call when ready. I get near her area on my way home and call she says she's not at the hotel but will be soon so gave me hotel name and where it's at. So I wait in the lot for like 10 minutes and text she texts almost there and asks what side I'm parked on. So she parks near me and calls to see if I saw her pull in and I tell her yes. We walk in a side door and this girl is young and hot but looks like she was not ready for me. Hair a bit messy and no make up. Enter the room and chat for awhile get acquainted then we talk business. We start messing around things move forward and she tells me she forgot a condom. I'm like great she's going to try to rip me off but instead says, I'm clean are you. So you can guess on what happened from there. Nothing like this had ever happened to me before so I have to ask has this happened to anyone before or have you had it with a provider?

I was seeing a provider (since retired), we hit it off real well, but intercourse was always covered.

So I don't know if this help but before I came I did ask if she was on BC and she said yes. I then text her yesterday and asked if bb would ok next time and she said no was a onetime thing and only cause she forgot a condom. I actually text her to see if that was the norm for her. I feel better now knowing it was kinda a special circumstance but thought how many have had it happen or was this a one in a million shot.

Women are not always honest about BC (I have two children, adults now, both conceived while their mothers were "on the pill"), but that is only part of the (potential) problem.
She might also not being honest about how often she "forgets" a condom. Kind of like forgetting your keys, wallet and phone when you leave the house.
For all you really know, she could be having lots of unprotected sex, either when she provides or in her personal life.  
I would bet she is under 30 years old.
My advice is to be responsible and get tested, you are putting other providers and their clients at risk if you don't

Never OK ... Of course she said she is clean and could be ... She didn't want to return any $$  

Be careful out here people...
Safety 1st

Yes, very young states 19 and I believe her. She could be lying about BC but why? The phone I use is a throw away and proving I'm the father would be tough if she doesn't know who I am lol. Yes, she could be bb everyone that is why I text her to see if we could again. It was a firm, no. Which leads me to believe it was not the norm. I do get tested once a year during my physical and that is in January. I'm not sure how I would be putting providers at any risk since this is the first time I've ever bb a provider.

Because it is presumed you will see providers in the future, THAT is how you put them and their clients at risk. When you BB with someone, you're BB'ing with EVERYone they've ever fucked to put it plainly. And contact without penetration counts. Mucous membranes! Do not put your raw dick on a lady on the outside, either. I've been asked "can I just rub it on your clit?" NO, you cannot! EVER!  

All it takes is once. Are you really that ignorant? Yet you believe her story?  

So are you assuming I bb all providers? And how exactly would you know if I did see you? Do you think you'd know who I am? Anyomnity is exactly why I use a throw away phone and why I use fake emails. And do you think you clients use protection every single time they have sex? Drunk at a bar and pick up some action and every time they wrap up? Act like the hooker with the heart of gold and judge me for this all you want but you are not in the profession to stick your nose up at anyone!!

I am so outed!! I thought it was too much on the obnoxious side & not very helpful to readers. It was rather fitting though wasn't it?

Good advice about getting tested goes ignored. Anyomnity gives one the right to father childern without supporting them and possibily infect a whole community with whatever may have been past between the two of you. This coupled with the notion that it's a great idea to brag about BBing someone you think may have been as old as 19. I hope she is over 18 and you didn't knock her up or catch something and spread it to anyone else

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Great advice Joe! We all love hot sex and love when our provider is totally into a session as that's a huge turn on! However out of respect for the provider and yourself, its in everyone's best interest to not let the "little head" out think the big head.  
Hope everything works out well for you.

Most ladies have stories about the mistakes that they made when they were starting out and so do the guys here if they were honest. A new girl forgets condoms and thinks about the $$. A new hobbyist doesn't bring his own condoms and thinks with his Johnson.

Even if I didn't know Astrid, she has shown 5times more class and integrity in the one post than you have in all of yours. Name calling just reaffirms how immature you are. You put yourself out here by your op. Did you really think you would get tons of "its OK" responses. I am glad you are getting your annual tests in January lol and I do hope she isn't pregnant ... No need for offspring that you can't handle or wait she is just a prostitute so who cares about the "kid" omg ... Please tell me you don't really rely on the 19yo prostitute to be honest about her age ... I mean how could you ... What do you expect in our responses ??? You would be better off to just stop responding ... You just keep digging a deeper shit hole

Long story short.  It was with a provider that I had arranged for a weekend trip to Mexico.  Great time.  Lots of fun and it just happened.  In retrospect that was not smart....   I think we were both feeling the weekend vibe.  I did not worry to much at the time but looking back that was not good.   It was my first back to back overnighter and I think I thought maybe that was just a part of the deal for paying the weekend rate....  Not so... as I had subsequent trips and it never happened again and I was just fine with that...

I would never risk bareback intercourse, BBBJ is already pushing it. In fact I contemplated shooting myself in the head after performing cunnilingus with a canker sore a few months ago, wow, wasn't thinking there.

Dkmamxxx,

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...she sent me a little note. Good for her! Good things happen to nice people. (AKA Angelica Amour)

I had an offer from a young lady I saw regularly, also because we forgot condoms. She was semi retired and said she only was seeing me (and her hubby), so she offered bbfs. She only ever did cbj, so bbbj was out of the question. bbbfs just isn't something I'm interested in, so we went with russian.

the little head seemed to win over the big head here....  as tempting as it may be, and as horny as you may get, you just have to....HAVE TO....use the big head in this situation.  BBFS with a provider is like playing with a loaded handgun.   sure it may NOT go off, but you dramatically increase the odds of having a life changing....or life ending....event by playing with it.   its nice to know that the overwhelming majority of providers on this board require the use of a condom.   at least they're thinking when us guys might not be capable of thinking....

A throw away phone and fake email address does not mean you could not be found, especially by the law. A private investigator, or someone with any skill at computers, could easily track your IP address and trace your posts on here. That is just one of the ways you could be found.