I'm trying to please you; please do tell me the best ways to do that. It's better for everyone that way!

in hobby life as well as regular life good communication makes everything better, unless you find a very rare mind reader.

Personally as a  Physical Therapist and Massage Therapist I feel it is important to ask about what the client is looking for and any troubled areas and we go from there.  For me in this area of work its all about the client.

"In my world", my client is Always the Director

They "tell" me either verbally or with body language what they like or dislike....and I respond in kind.  I have several "casting couches" just for that purpose.     Does that make me the "Assistant Director"?    lol.    

I have clients who let me know prior to our appointment what their specific thoughts/ideas/fantasies are, and I like that too.  

Anyways, I absolutely encourage open communication and direction from a client.  The naughtier the better.    

xx

...I've found that Ladies are very receptive to my ideas and likes. Take this bloke, for example. See how the professionalism of the Provider leads this shy first timer into having his desires fulfilled!

Active participant please!!!

Just kidding...  

Regardless of P4P or Civi  
one of the greatest things about sex is the communication between two people in an attempt to  
enhance eachother's  experience

Ive found that form of communication more lacking in the civi sexual experiences ive had and lots of communicating with my p4p clients..  
 Im sure because if the "investment" being made that they want the most out of it and im happy to deliver that...  

plus there's that everyone is a happy little snowflake and no two are exactly alike so what makes one happy may not do it for another. so I like to make sure we get comfortable enough as soon as possible so its easier for whomever im with to start communicating with me right away..  

~Cat xoxo

It's clear to me that I wasn't being unreasonable in a recent massage session. The provider and I simply had different definitions of "service." (None of the massage providers I've reviewed...)