I am married. My sex life is basically non-existent within my marriage.  I love my wife, but there is barely a connection in the bedroom. No adventure. No oral. No different positions. Boring.  I once told her (in a non-serious way) that I would let her do me with a strap-on just to try something different. At this point afterward, I would probably consider it given the circumstances. lol   But wtf, even that wouldn't even happen.

I am at a point in my life where between work and other obligations I am not in a position to meet many women and have little time to offer them if I did.

So I pick out some amazing ladies, spend some wonderful, and guilt free, time with them, and then go back to the drudgery.

No SO, and not embarrassed by this, so I have fun.

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Time however is not.  

Anybody who wants to look down on me cause I can't get "free" anymore, doesn't realize there is no such thing and could NEVER repeat my experience in Vegas hitting the bars and clubs.

I just want someone to play Jenga with. Hey, if they happen to want to phuck and suck me stupid, what a bonus!

Its been some 30+ years since I've had a BJ. Figure its about time for another one.

I was in a loveless marriage.  Needed some affection.  Didn't want to date.  Out of marriage now, but I still have little interest in dating.  The hobby works out perfectly for me.

I like to fuck younger, sexy females!

I'm not interested in doing without either one until such time as I meet the right woman (if that ever even happens) so seeing escorts fills both needs as a good many of them are delightful companions in addition to their looks and sexual skills.

These days I mostly repeat.

a female viewpoint reply....

Backbend,

Bet you be surprised that many providers have at least a few of the same reasons we are in this fantasy hobby- I "use" my friends for companionship, intimacy, hot play which may or may not happen if I was not in this hobby, seeing someone that does not judge and is unbiased enough to sometimes have me bounce a problem off or to seek an opinion, to share dreams,   the human touch is good for the soul and revives the lust for life an as stated to once again step outside and deal with the real stuff.  Yeah, the green has something to do with it, but golly its so much more and I'm thinkin my reasons are much the same as the kind gentlemen that replyed, sorry to but in on a male conversation, but wondered your question about 15 years ago and its what I came up with  Great question backbend! J. xxxoo

The last time my spouse and I had intercourse was 21 years ago. We still sleep together every night, but that's what we do, sleep. I cannot conceive of life without her, I love her and vice versa, but even while dating I saw providers. She knows I do, doesn't like the money it takes, but isn't willing to discuss what it would take to stop me. I like variety. I like things kinkier than she does. I am always looking for someone who has new ideas. We've bee married over 30 years, and it works for us.

I Travel For My Job And Love The Companionship And Variety!  I've Met Many Amazingg Women In This Hobby.

Who's main goal is to make me feel like a king.

To fuck better girls than I can attract without offering a cash-incentive!

Let's be real here! The only reason we pay to fuck is so we can improve the quality and reduce the amount of bullshit we have to go through to get our cock in a hole!  

And then we can just walk away, not needing to do all the emotional shit to ensure she's give it to us next time, we just pay and leave! And we're done!  

I will sometimes stick with a known-commodity, as long as she still stimulated the desire to my desire to keep returning, but often the excitement of the "unknown" to try someone I haven't seen out weighs my need for consistency, so I am more apt to venture into vaginas-unknown that create a list of favorites...

As for the men seeking "companionship from a paid-whore, that is insane! It's not what they are for and it's misdirected affections in your own life that have brought you to this sad and lonely place! Get a dog and play fetch with it when you need companionship and go pay a whore when you need to ejaculate, but quit getting those two mixed up! DAMN!

i want what i want when i want it! it is easier this way rather than lying to someone in a bar or on the internet. Feeling don't get hurt and secrets rearly get out. convenience at this time in my life. to feel like all my long hours at work and to spned it on myself. mostly always a good value!