Eye contact during sex, yea or nay?

I've never specifically asked for it, but it seems to me in my limited experience that it's just not done. Too intimate?

For me, it depends upon who it is, and most likely it would be with someone who I feel somewhat of a "connection," most likely someone I have seen more than once.  

Yes, this may be too intimate for some, especially for a first "date." That is what I love about my return clients, because things can change and get better as time goes on, including feeling more comfortable with one another and progressing in that area as time goes on.

JMHO.

It's rare when I don't experience eye to eye contact. Wouldn't go back to a provider that doesn't. Just my personal preference.

Definitely!

It's your moment--just the two of you.  I can't think of a better way to convey that connection.

The "eyes" have it.  (pun intended)

Hugs,
D.

I like eye contact.  And always wonder about those that must keep their eyes shut....

I like the intensity it lends to a situation...

It is just one more way to share the passion that we express with our bodies.  The eyes are the windows to our souls and SPEAK volumes!

Please DO look into my eyes!!!

Hugs, Belinda

If you've met me I'm sure you know my answer. My personal preference is...

Eye contact!
Yet, a mixture is nice too.
When giving an oral presentation it is always important to make eye contact with your audience and vice versa.

Porn stars look right into the camera. And I happen to think POV DT gagging, spitting BJ videos are hot. They make me wet.

Intimacy is what a GFE should strive for.
DT me and look into my eyes. That is what I call HAWT intimacy.

Eyes WIDE open,
SG

ps great question OP!

Is a definite way to reach a "deep connection", don't you think?  However, some men are not willing to go there, and that's OK, too!  We can get deep with other body parts!

I agree! Luv those eyes, Sam. Damn, I am gettin a stiffy just lookin at that pic....

Personally I love eye contact... I just haven't gotten it from the few escorts I've been with. That's not a  knock against them -- I count myself lucky to have been with some great women through TER -- it's just a perk I'd prefer. I totally understand where a woman might keep that level of intimacy to her own private life.

I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic in that way, I guess. Any woman I choose to be intimate with, I fall a little in love with. Not in a creepy, stalkery way, but for the couple hours we're together, that's the connection I make.

Sometimes the eye contact distracts from the focus of total enjoyment.

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I can recall the hottest time i had with a provider, and it was with eye contact all the way.  we made eye contact before & during our time, but in the heat of the moment & release.. we locked eyes.. and it was by far the most intimate and sexy thing a girl has ever done to me whilst having sex.