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Recently a lady shared with me that she is kind of confused as to how she should convey the physical nature of what she offers on a date/session/engagement/whatever. I approach it in what to me is a discreet fashion by stating as long as our spirited adventures are safe, the sky's the limit!! Vanilla, fetish-wise, whatever…

So for other ladies who are sexual freaks/open to anything/fetish-friendly; would you prefer they explicitly mention it in their ads (e.g. “I love to fuck”) or imply so in a discreet manner assuming you can read their reviews? So explicitness and/or discreetly ambiguous? That is the question! A prude on the board and in her ads or a totally out there sexual beast?!  Does explicitness distract you from other things she may offer like going on lovely dinners dates and hiking, etc.?

Which leads to the following topic of discussion…..

So as far as the nonphysical goes, what are some of your favorite adventures? I know some men and ladies do not participate in this way, but for those who do, feel free to share. MINE: I used to love going hiking with a regular, canoeing and taking dangerous risks like going in the DO NOT ENTER areas of the Mississippi River! That was amazing, as well as going on boat excursions, vacations and the list goes on…

Please do share yours!!!

Thank you for participating and sweet dreams!! I am up too late yet again! grrr...:)

PS. Sorry Morris, but you will have to answer this seriously or kick rocks somewhere else. ;) I am just kidding. You are always welcome. xoxo

First Inquiry:  The best providers are discreet in the important aspects of how they sell themselves.

Second Inquiry:  Although I have entertained the idea of your noted forms of adventure in the past, the hobby is best enjoyed one-on-one in a hotel room.

Viewing Pleasure:  I appreciate the link to your Internet site.

My Inquiry:  Now that you have left Minneapolis, are you still a fan of the Vikings? Although the Bears do not have a cheer squad, you would certainly be exquisite in navy and orange.

First: I like that you like discretion. I believe it benefits both parties, although sometimes I find it is a turn on to read ads that just put it all out there.

Second: It sounds like BCD works best for your current "hobby" style which may never change, but if it does, I hope you find the “companionship” aspect of this “hobby” to be super enjoyable. I have found every encounter to be pleasurable and appreciate these experiences.

Third: I am glad you are ok with my link. If you think about it, I saved you one extra click by not having to go to my profile for it. I can be nice like that sometimes. ;)

Fourth: I will always be a fan of the Vikes, even if I am not currently available to you fine Minneapolis men. That of course could change at any time, but my love for purple and gold will never change! And thank you for the lovely compliment. I will keep navy and orange in consideration for my next photo shoot with something along the lines of the photo below, because me representing the Chicago Bears will never happen!! :)

Fifth: Thank you for participating. I appreciate you.

I understand that I am probably completely wrong, and also not necessarily representative of everybody, but well, here are my thoughts!

The most frequent fetish-type thing I see offered in adds is BDSM.  In general, when I see these things advertised, my impression is that these ladies are specialists who are probably quite good at that, but then on the average are going to be not as good at everything else.  This is a generalization.  A provider may be 10/10 incredible and also be great at any fetish you like, but in general, if you advertise a fetish, I think it is because you are making yourself attractive to a smaller client base to compete because, maybe, you aren't competing as well with the vanilla crowd.

It's also like, if I'm in the mood for a FBSM (as I usually am), I typically don't go to see a FS provider.  I want someone who specializes in FBSM and isn't depending on other skills.

I have found some vanilla men secretly enjoy a bit of a twist too. By this I mean light fetish, I guess. I am definitely not a specialist when it comes to any type of fetish (I specialize in companionship), but am always willing to try anything new if it strikes my partner's fancy.

I appreciate your contribution. You make a ton of sense. If I wanted to enjoy "A", I would go to a specialist who provides "A". Then if I wanted to enjoy a bit of "B", I would go to someone who provides "B" services. Then if I love vanilla companionship and want to see if my partner is open to trying something new (while continuing to excel in companionship), I would see an escort who is well-rounded and free with her sexuality.

PS. Thank you for participating, Mr. Nasty! Without participation, there is really no point in coming to this board. So again thank you!! Have a great night and weekend! :)

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