I just got stood up for the second time by the same Provider. I will not devulge her name but she has very good reviews and is on P411 and I believe DateCheck. In both instances the communication started at least 24-48 hrs prior to the appointment but ends when I try to contact her to confirm about 1 hour prior to the appointment. I tried to contact her by text, phone and email but I get nothing. The first time I actually drove 40 minutes to her incall location to have her NS. She apologized later by email and said she would explain later and offered $50 discount. So its one month later and I set up the appointment for this morning and again she is a NS. This time I didnt drive 40 min as I decided I would wait until I contacted her. What pisses me off is I don't have alot of opportunities especially on weekends to see someone. So this is a waste of my time and a waste of an opportunity. On a side note if there is a GFE Provider available on Monday morning between 9 - 11 am and has incalls west of Minneapolis and can see me please contact me. I am a member of P411 and will provide my ID for references.
Maybe just to fucking vent. And yes I can give up the name of the Provider but I really would like to know her reason for a NS before I discredit her. On second thought, the point I want to make is that my time is valuable. So message to Providers, please don't mess with a Hobbyist time as we pay for your time. So I vented and life goes on. This reminds me why I don't normally post anything.
Yeah, this sucks, when it happens to the hobbyist... or to the provider. On the bright side, we are blessed to have in the Twin Cities many wonderful providers who are very professional in their approach to their business and do respect the time of their clients. Once you find one or more of those ladies... stick with them!
Lots of times guys do what you have done but seldom do they come back later and say whether or not they got a satisfactory explanation or name the provider who did the NCNS.
unless you provide a name. Venting is fine but without a name it doesn't help the rest of us who may consider a date with her.
NCNS's are very common in the hobby; if you share the name it may change her behaivor if she was called on it. Your time valuable but so is everybody elses time.
Can you PM me with details? I had an almost same experience with a well known provider just as you described and she did almost the identical thing to me on two occasions in the last two weeks. If she is on P411, then I recommend that you report her to P411 for the 2 NCNS.
Not providing the provider's name does nothing to discourage NCNS'ing.
Posted By: Franklyn52
I just got stood up for the second time by the same Provider. I will not devulge her name but she has very good reviews and is on P411 and I believe DateCheck. In both instances the communication started at least 24-48 hrs prior to the appointment but ends when I try to contact her to confirm about 1 hour prior to the appointment. I tried to contact her by text, phone and email but I get nothing. The first time I actually drove 40 minutes to her incall location to have her NS. She apologized later by email and said she would explain later and offered $50 discount. So its one month later and I set up the appointment for this morning and again she is a NS. This time I didnt drive 40 min as I decided I would wait until I contacted her. What pisses me off is I don't have alot of opportunities especially on weekends to see someone. So this is a waste of my time and a waste of an opportunity. On a side note if there is a GFE Provider available on Monday morning between 9 - 11 am and has incalls west of Minneapolis and can see me please contact me. I am a member of P411 and will provide my ID for references.
You said "In both instances the communication started at least 24-48 hrs prior to the appointment but ends when I try to contact her to confirm about 1 hour prior to the appointment."
How is it NCNS if the appointment was never confirmed?
I don't think she should play games with you like that and that is definitely a bad way to run a business.....but, if the discussed date was never confirmed, there really was no appt. Just my opinion and I could be wrong....... Belinda
Yes....I think. A fairly standard practice for some providers is to ask for a call about an hour or so before the appointment--which was confirmed previously. Many won't divulge details on exact incall location until then, and I've also thought some do it so as to not have a higher percentage of no shows from hobbyists. Then there's the ones that seem to sort through appointments and make plans for multiples at the same time, eventually picking the one they prefer and leaving the others in the cold.
Can be avoided by sticking with well reviewed more professional providers most of the time--looks like in this case he thought he did. Life gets in the way for some providers at times so I can appreciate his desire to vent but not name until he gets more info. If he doesn't come back due to the attacks I'd understand that too.
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