interested in responses from both ladies and gents. what is the most effective and widely accepted way to ask about services over the phone. acronyms? languages spoken? it has been my experience that "you won't be disappointed" means precisely that i will be disappointed. i feel it is best for both parties to know exactly what is desired and what is offered. in order to have a mutually enjoyable encounter. any insite will be greatly appreciated.

I'd use the reviews for this purpose.  Most won't discuss things on the phone.