Does any one  offer how to please a GF/women session?  I'm sick of fumbling and stumbling round.  PM welcome.

I think you are over thinking this.  to the lady this is ultimately a business transaction.  I'm not sure what exactly you mean by "please"  taken at face value my answer is:
1. be kind and respectful when setting up the appointment.
2.  never insult her by asking for a discount.
3.  when you first see her remind her that she is beautiful.  (a woman who will allow, is beautiful)
4.  set your donation in plain sight with out comment.  
5. ask about rules and do not violate them ever.
5. let her know what things you enjoy and follow her lead.
6.  being a respectful clean and kind customer is all she will ask of you.
7.  thank her for her kindness as you leave.

It's about learning skills in this life that can be used in civie life.  Some of us aren't gods gift in the bedroom and want to improve.  Don't take that last sentence as being an asshole or dirrected at you.  Just a figure of speech that's it.

what people call the 'hobby' is the perfect place to explore and learn.  That is true BECAUSE the ladies in the business do not need or demand a performance.  You can relax, put your guard down and just enjoy.  Your question was not rhetorical and my and answer was not rote.  My message is the answer, you do not need to be god's gift in the act.  Just be kind and enjoy the time with a wonderful lady.  I am going to drop out of this conversation and hope that the ladies will help explain that you are focused on the wrong goal.  I have read other post from you and my since is you are a nice guy, I will let the ladies explain it better but I assure you just being respectful and kind makes you a favorite client.  You are doing fine, just relax.  I'm out

If his OP was about how to please a provider, I would say that your answers have a lot of truth to them. But it wasn't, he was asking whether any local providers offer sexual education sessions.

xxxjoie your right on target.

that is a very good point and I understood from the original post that a teaching session was what he is looking for.  in the first response to my message he said "some of us are not gods' gift in the bedroom"  

Teaching sessions !!!

and you do the same.  Tell her what you like. Show her what you like.  Teach her what you like.
Our bodies and our responses are all different so communication is key.

... there is still absolutely nothing wrong, and a great deal that is right, in wanting to learn how to give pleasure to the lady you are with. Simply trying forces a guy to pay more attention to her, and to the signals she is sending out, consciously and unconsciously, which makes the whole experience more intimate. Women are mysterious; they don't come with a user's manual; there is no trick or technique that will work the same on every woman. So having a few different ideas in hand that you can try as you watch and listen to her reaction, lets a guy start with a bit more confidence.  

...we all know more than we did prior to every experience.  I've never not learned something from a great session.  Every top provider that I've seen has taught me something, and I am grateful for those times.  I guess I never really thought about it, but after not seeing my ATF for quite some time now, that was probably the reason I was so excited for each meeting.  There is always something new (and it isn't though I've not been around the block...).

...Help you out and give you pointers you can use during a session. The beauty of the "hobby", as was already pointed out in this thread, is that there is no judgement and no expectations of pleasure or performance....so you can feel 100% comfortable asking questions and advice from a provider.

Absolutely!  The top providers around here are all great!  Just read reviews and find someone you feel that you'd be comfortable talking to about your concerns.

Couldn't agree more