I'm sure I'm not the only guy who is in this predicament.
Living in a non-metro area in southern MN has it's advantages but it can be very difficult to see the wonderful ladies of TER. Especially on short notice without spending 4 to 5 hours a day driving and meeting. Planning meetings in order to fulfill the needs, wants and wishes that go along with the "hobby" usually need to be a 3 to 4 day advance notice (to have someone travel to the south) and a lot can happen to make plans fall through (on both sides)leaving one or both of us very frustrated.
For example, I have about 4 free hrs this morning....want to see someone but not enough time to drive to the metro.
All this brings me to the reason for my post. Actually I'm using it as more of a sounding board than a posting.
There are there so many "cute", tight body, innocent looking little young women/girls advertising on CL and BP (in my area). I'm sooo tempted but also sooo scared because none have reviews, the phone numbers can be traced to other names/locations and it's always so possible to be a bait and switch or even worse....a sting.
I guess my location is a disadvantage (for the hobby) and although I'm tempted with CL & BP.....I'm just not that stupid(yet). I'm letting the right head do the thinking.
Thanks for listening and if there are any ladies living in the se part of the state.....please let me know and I think we could become friends.

You can choose a couple of ladies in the metro areas who you would like to see, contact them, and ask them to pre-screen you. A lot of ladies will be happy to do this. When you are in their area, a short notice date would be more plausible. Another idea would be to use the search function here. You can narrow your search down to nothing but an area code. You may be surprised by some ladies close to you.

Good luck

Or pre-plan your rendezvous, giving the lady or yourself plenty of travel time.  Those are the only viable solutions for those gentleman outside the metro area.

Good luck and Happy hobbying!

You should live out here in South Dakota,  350 miles to the twin cities.  Then when I do go, I over do it and see three gals in two days. The last encounter  is more like work, But then again,  I love work.  I would trade Southern Minn, for here, at least for the travel to fun.

Try 3 at once, then you will be able to handle 3 in two days!

There are treasures and trash on BP & CL. Watch the ads and check out other similar areas. Some of these ads are running almost every day on lots of areas at once. Obviously trash. And some pop up in groups and disapear in groups, obviously a group of people traveling together. Watch if they pop up in other smaller locals on different dates. Search the board and reviews, there are some for these smaller towns. Recognize that beggers cannot be choosers.... You may get a possitive expieriance but not top shelf.

Be sure you have a descrete phone and call some of them and strike up a little conversation to just get a feel for authenticity. Think about how to ask price without incriminating them or yourself.... Or the better ones will list a price. Beware of too little, good deals exist, great ones are rare. You should be able to get a price and time figured out without anything incriminating being said. And if you do meet, go in with eyes and ears wide open. Arrive a little early and scope it out. Check out the bathroom, closet, door to a connected room. Just tell the lady you are a little nervous and want to be confident that everything is ok. Never say or do anything incriminating. Just go with the flow. If you get ripped off, better than hurt or locked up. If you must leave, pay her at least something for her bother and politely excuse yourself. I have only done this a few times, but should have a couple more.

Someone has to TOFTT every now and then.

Or just make better plans and spend more time with blue balls! Seriously, esspecially in this economy, I think there are top quality ladies willing to travel to your area with proper planning.

Some of the ladies will travel if it is worth their while. I know, or know of, several that will do this. Maybe plan an overnight or multi-hour (probably 4-8 hour minimum). Boost your chances if you meet somewhere in between so both of you have to share the travel time.

If it is a multi-hour session and long travel time, I would expect to have to pay some sort of deposit, which is only fair since often times they travel out of town and have one or more of their appointments cancel. If you are the only appointment and you cancel, she is screwed, and not in a pleasant way.