I have never used the services of and escort before. Yes I know it seems hard to believe but its true. Due to some major changes in my life I thought I would give the hobby a try.

So I started looking at the ads and then found this site and joined. Started to read the reviews and picked a provider that is highly recommended. Visited her site,liked what I saw clicked on contact the provider and hit a road block. The provider as part of her screening wanted a referance from another provider. Well as I said I'm new and haven't seen anyone else. Filled out the contact form anyway and sent a seperate e-mail explaining the situation and haven't heard back from her. So I assume that without the referance the provider isn't interested.

I have to figure that all the hobbyists had to start some where and had a first time. How did you deal with this issue? Any advice? Do I have to see someone else and work my way up so to speak? Would like to hear from both providers and other hobbyists. Thanks for the input.

Hunter, first thing I would recomend would be buy a VIP membership so you can read reviews and get more detailed information.  This will help you doing research in finding a provider that suits your needs.

If you have specific type of lady or services you are looking let me know and I can point you in the right direction.

Hunter, there are some ladies that don't do much screening. Keep calling till you find one and make sure she will agree to give a reference.

best to pick a provider that just does "screening" first, and pick someone who has been around a while so the reference will carry some weight.  Some providers as an alternative will do a work number check in lieu of references.  They will want your business phone number and will call it and ask to speak with you or to get your phone mail.  Not exactly very discreet but if its a well established and well reviewed provider, you can probably count on her discretion.   I have done that only once and then only because it was a lady I was dying to see.  She was also someone that had been reviewed dozens of times, with very good results.

It has been suggested that I find a provider who will call my work as verification. Road block there also. I work in a factory type setting and don't have a direct dial number at work. Also due to circumstances that I'm reluctant to post in an open forum, having the provider call the central switch board wouldn't be advisable either. Lots of gossip is one reason.There are other reasons also.
Also, I'm not sure if work would just say that yes, so and so does work here.

As an alternative to all the verification problems, could meeting a provider in a public bar/resturant for an hours drink and chat be feasible,of course her time would be compensated? Then if the provider approves set another date for later on? Has this ever been done? This would give the provider a chance to look me over and see I'm not dangerous or a freak in a pleasent and safe enviroment.

I understand that the provider needs to be careful and look after her safty and be discrete and discriminating with her clients. In fact, I would prefer a provider who is carful about her safty and who she meets as that tells me that she is concerned for her clients welfare also.

I'm not trying to be difficult here, just trying to learn how the system works and figure out something that both a provider and I would be happy with.

Thanks for all the responses!

I've been trolling in the twin cities since the days of the health clubs.  There are still some top gals around from those good old days here in town.  However the local marketplace is flooded (actually saturated) now due mostly to the internet.  It's your basic supply & demand scenario. The funny thing about it is pricing hasn't dropped as you'de expect with a commodity product - which this is.  I would say stay away from the out-of-towners as they're just cherry pickin.  A good local gal with consistantly good reviews would be a better bet.  Good Luck

Get your usename out there by participating in the discussion boards ( I would recommend the TER chatroom too but very few providers go there - oh well). The more your name appears on the bulliten board, the more comfortable providers that come here are going to feel with you. Good luck! been there. done that

I doubt that will work since just meeting you doesn't really screen out her concerns about potential LE connections.

I met a provider once who actually worked the way you suggest.  She met her new clients socially first (free of charge to boot).  She could then judge for herself if she wanted to allow for a future meeting.  I have since lost track of her, or I would direct you to her.  However, it is my opinion that LE would not go to that much trouble to nab one provider.  Just my opinion, but I think a provider would at least be able to get a vibe one way or another about you in that situation.  Hopefully allowing you to set up a meeting later and build a "referance" base.  I would recommend suggesting to buy some provider lunch some day and see if you can attract the interest of some well known lady willing to at least meet you for a free lunch and a "get to know me" session.

I also notice that one of the Twin Cities well known providers advertises on Room Service 2000.  This service allows you to buy a lifetime membership for only 50 bucks.  They verify who you are and all the providers need do is know that you are verified through RS2000.  I would think Madison would accept a meeting with you if you were to shell out the 50 and get "verified" by RS2000, since she advertises there.  Now I don't know much about RS2000 mind you.  Others may have wiser thoughts on whether this is a good idea.

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