Well hello, Minneapolis board.  None of you probably know me.  I doubt there's anyone here who remembers me, either.  I haven't been active in the "hobby" (are we still calling it that?) or on the boards for almost 10 years, and I have SO. MANY. questions.  But for now, I'll keep my topic to advice.

In the past few days I have messaged 2 providers.  One responded today, and we made an appointment for late tomorrow evening.  When I clarified that I was looking for outcall, I was asked for my location.  I then gave my address, and haven't heard anything since.   I sent another message a few hours later asking if we were set, and nothing.

Did I make some sort of etiquette breach?  Should I have gone for general location at first vs address?  I'm not sure what to do.  My thinking is, I will just leave it until tomorrow and send another follow-up message, or perhaps call or e-mail, but I thought I'd ask input from the experts.  Note that I have a basic membership, so I cannot access any PMs.  I have 16 in my inbox from like 8 years ago that I can't read!  I have some dishes to wash for now, so I'll be back to check replies.  Thanks in advance!!!

They do have other things going on in their lives.  If you haven't heard by early afternoon, then you may be getting blown off.

Certainly.  I agree.  Thank you, sir.

I did send a follow up text a couple hours ago and, zip. I wasn't asked any screening stuff other than age and ethnicity.

I'm in Columbia Heights, which is like... nothing happens here ever pretty much. Certainly not in the residential part anyway. She appears to be based in Eagan so if distance is the key I'd happily arrange an Uber if she wanted.

She's not independent, which, to my knowledge this is the first I've delt with that, so if there's a scheduler involved maybe there'ssome issue there.

I'm still hopeful, and I want to follow up one more time. My only question is when and how.  There are 2 #s on the profile, 1 that says for text and the other says voicemail. *shrug*  

Idk! I guess we'll see. I'll keep you updated. I hope it's not an NCNS my first time out in 10 years.

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The ball is in her (or her scheduler's) court.  I'd move on to someone else.

I'd also suggest not posting details such as what suburb anyone is in; LE can read this forum as easily as anyone.

Ugh you're right. Went back last night and read some older posts of mine and thought, "You bonehead..." and here we are... Makin the rookie mistakes. 😬 Damn. Not a good look. I'm pretty embarassed.

Anyway. Yeah, I'm callin it. I did send one more text around 7 and still nothin.  

Thanks everyone for your input. I truly do appreciate it. End of thread.

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As far as as an outcall some  will not do on a first meeting  
Then some will only do outcall to hotels
Lastly it doesn’t sound like anything was ever completely confirmed so as for a NCNS it is not one.
Good luck next time .