OK ladies, Valentine's Day is just around the corner and it's time for us men to start thinking about what the best gift to buy our favorite someone is.

Some sexy lingerie or my fave perfume. That way I can remember the thoughtfulness of my friend each&every time that I wear that item as well as get a better idea of what that friend likes as far as lingerie. Added plus is that with lingerie, I can wear it for my friend for some play time together... it's a win/win for the both of us.  

... then a gift certificate for a massage.  I have yet to meet a woman who doesn't love a massage.  

A condom??  Haha

Posted By: knotsaway

...  But of course, we always have SOME sort of hint. So I know what I'm bringing with me on V-Day.  

I prefer a good bottle of Mccallan (18 preferred), Cigars, maybe a gift card to stores that I can stock up on things for my Incall.

So if I showed up with a 12 year and some Swisher Sweets would you send me away?

Chocolate & wine will disappear quickly and lingerie can be difficult to find the correct fit, but a gift card would be great.

I like Mccallan 12. I would gladly exchange your swishers with some cohibas or a Romeo y jueliette. Whichever is your preference. I just don't smoke swishers,I am sorry.  

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For me it's purely the surprise of getting something unexpected. Like even when I have clients who give me a card with a note written in it, it warms my heart.  

No gifts are expected but it's always appreciated so whatever they may bring I will be thankful for!!

Really why would you get a provider and your ATF any thing. I think the donation is enough. Valentine's Day is BS. One sided day it's not even a holiday. Even if I was to get some thing for a provider I think in advance she better do some research, Or better yet most providers have a gift or wish list on their profiles. I think when booking with a provider that has a gift or wish list a monger should attach his wish list and or gift's he will accept.

I think the gift-giving plays into the fantasy that the provider is the hobbyist's girlfriend.  Not a bad or good thing, just a fantasy..

Awesome, your my new best fucking TER buddy.

No one cares about us Johns fantasy.  I fantasize about getting 50% discount on every other visit, now that would be HOT!!!

... doing something nice for someone we've spent a lot of time with and gotten to know as a person in addition to as a provider.

In my experience in the civilian world, when a client does a lot of business with (i.e., pays money to) another business for goods and services provided, the business providing the goods and services (i.e., receiving the money) will sometimes buys gifts for the client, but not vice versa.  The company I work for is always receiving end-of the-year/other occasion thank-you gifts from vendors, etc. that we do business with.  Last week we received a large box of cookies form a vendor.  Some businesses will give their clients Vikings/Twins/Wild/etc. tickets.  I wouldn't think of sending my paper supplier a bottle of wine or a dozen roses to thank them for their business.  Only in the hobbying world is this equation turned upside down.  

I don't give my paper supplier gifts either.  But the provider/client relationship is a lot different than a paper supplier/client relationship, wouldn't you agree?  You probably don't kiss your paper supplier, or press your naked body into theirs, or have sex with them.  

Excellent response Knots!  I could not have put it any better myself.

I'm not obligated to and I seldom do it but when I choose to do it, it is because I feel like doing it and I don't expect anything in return.

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