I am new at this and would like to meet the Poppyseed and Addysin Roses of the hobbie. The Best always want references. I have only met six non P411 types... Yes I joined in my commitment to the hobby! So Claire South and Korey Kane both agreed to help... Opinions?

for screening!!!!   I love it, cuz it keeps us ALL safe.....   Being a P411 member myself, I know for sure there are providers that are newbie friendly.   MHO: just PM one provider that you would like to meet and ask her what information (references, work or meet & greet) she needs allowing her to be comfortable with you.  

Both Claire South and Korey Kane are members so you are heading in the right direction.    Many ladies on P411 to enjoy.    Welcome aboard and have fun.....

...the 2 or 3 girls that have gotten good reviews from you recently, to give you a reference?  A girl does not have to be a P411 member to give a reference for you to another provider.  If they are legit (with decent reviews here on TER) they should be acceptable to most providers as references.  Those girls you have seen and reviewed can also be asked to "whitelist" you here on TER and that also serves a reference for the future.  
Btw, seeing Claire or Korey is still a great idea because you will have FUN!

1)  You could join P411
2)  You could contact the providers you have seen and ask if you can use them as references
3)  You can contact the providers you want to see and see what else they might accept as sufficient screening.

Thanks for the advice. I went with Claire and hopefully will see Korey as well!

One of the reviews I posted was contacted and said she never met me. I would never post without a reason. It cost me a chance with Poppy... Sucks, hope I can recover and land on my back....

Did you ask the provider you gave as a reference if she would be a reference for you before using her for that purpose?  If she said yes, then denied seeing you that is bad business.  If you didn't ask first, well, then what happened is not surprising.  We always have to ask a girl if she is willing to be a reference for us.  Some are willing, some are not.   Have fun in your session with Claire and we look forward to your next review.

Sorry that you might have lost your chance seeing Poppy, but one has to marvel at Poppys persistence to be safe for herself AND US hobbyists!!!!!!