Good Morning!
So, while relaxing with a magazine this weekend, I found this in a recent Cosmo magazine, and thought it interesting! The full article lists 50 things over 2,000 men rated either "Go for it, that's amazingly hot" to "Eh, I could take it or leave it" to "Whoa, please skip it."

What I find interesting is that the exact things that are rated "skip it" in the magazine are also something I hear people actually often request! *giggle* Some of these make more sense to me than others, so just wondering what do YOU think?

The "Whoa, please skip it" or "Could take it or leave it" List is........
+ Asking HIM to give you a lapdance
+ Putting on a playlist of slow love songs to set the mood
+ Putting on a playlist of rap and hip-hop songs to set the mood
+ Decorating the bed with rose petals and lighting a bunch of candles
+ Running your tongue back and forth along the roof of his mouth
+ Biting down on his tongue while kissing
+ Giving him a hickey.....lol!
+ Kissing his ear and then blowing in it
+ Licking the sensitive skin behind the crook of his knees and elbows
+ Twisting his nipples with your fingers
+ Tickling him from head to toe
+ Gently biting his cock
+ Gently nibbling on his balls
+ Kissing him immediately after you finish going down on him
+ Demanding that he scream your name midsex
+ Biting his shoulder hard enough to leave teeth marks when you are in missionary
+ Kissing his butt cheek and gently biting it
+ Calling him "daddy" during sex
+ Spanking his butt with a spatula (really!)
+ Suggesting a threesome with you and another guy
+ Putting your finger in his butt

So what does this all mean? I guess... ladies... maybe don't jump into doing these things because they don't know what you want..... (not of course saying you would!) and guys... if any of these things ARE your thing, then you might want to let "someone" know about it and maximize your fun! What do YOU think?
Have a fun week!!!

XO
Wendy

Sounds cool! Sensual especially....... Still 1/3 left on the list then too!!  

Isn't it impolite to talk with your mouthful?

I agree!  That type of music does nothing to put me in the mood, either!  I tend towards the jazzy, romantic music...but that is also actually on this list as a "take it or leave it."  

Really??

Xo
Wendy

No marks that last more than about an hour please! (for obvious reasons). And I would like to be your lover, I am not your daddy.

I would be up up for anything sensual. But what really turns me on is turning you on.... And getting you off! Esspecially when I know it is real... And they way you get off Wendy, there is no doubt

yup you can skip the (c)rap / hip-hop shit. Talking about busting a cap in someones knee or "axing" a question always puts me in the mood!

I forget her name, but that 4'9" tall brunette spinner that used to be popular here in Mpls (she had the 6' tall friend who I (sadly) never saw)...  anyway, I was happily humping away in doggie, and I asked her to call me Daddy.  She declined.  It was a bit of a mood killer, as it made me suspect that she had some unpleasant touching in her history.

Nonetheless, she was cute as hell, and I popped 2x with no problems before the hour was up, but I didn't repeat.

Mostly, I wish her tall hot friend was still available.

Kissing his ear and then blowing in it

That can be hot sometimes. The rest varies from please no to HELL NO!

Hickeys are very, very, very bad!

Bite marks and nail scratches are also a major no-no.

But anything that leaves marks is not.  I'm not much of a lap dancer and that second guy is not for me.  I'm definitely not your "daddy".  As far as the music goes, you have it right with the nice mix you always have for us to enjoy.  But in the end, I pretty much enjoy what makes you giggle  Now, what's on that "Go for it, that's amazingly hot" list.  

Is it October yet? LOL

I provide provide prostate massages.  I love it!!
Even if I am not doing the prostate massage guys ask me to rub the outside of the butt.

Dumb, I tried it once,  just awkward + Asking HIM to give you a lapdance
                                            Sure + Putting on a playlist of slow love songs to set the mood
         Not really, try Mozart instead + Putting on a playlist of rap and hip-hop songs to set the mood
                                           Okay + Decorating the bed with rose petals and lighting a bunch of candles
                               Sure why not + Running your tongue back and forth along the roof of his mouth
                                       You bet + Biting down on his tongue while kissing
             Only if I can give you one + Giving him a hickey.....lol!
Blow in my ear and I 'll follow you anywhere ! + Kissing his ear and then blowing in it
                                            Meh + Licking the sensitive skin behind the crook of his knees and elbows
                                          Okay + Twisting his nipples with your fingers
                                Not so much + Tickling him from head to toe
                                           Sure + Gently biting his cock
                                         Maybe + Gently nibbling on his balls
                                     Why Not? + Kissing him immediately after you finish going down on him
          Absolutely and other things! + Demanding that he scream your name midsex
          It's been done before to me + Biting his shoulder hard enough to leave teeth marks when you are in missionary
                                           Sure + Kissing his butt cheek and gently biting it
                  And other nasty things + Calling him "daddy" during sex
                          Are you kidding? + Spanking his butt with a spatula (really!)
                                       Too gay + Suggesting a threesome with you and another guy
                     If you really want to + Putting your finger in his butt



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.....but with you, the rest are on the menu!

But not all of them.  I guess it comes down to learning what your partner likes and doesn't like.

I asked for a few of those things once, she must have gotten them all jumbled because she ended up sticking a spatula in my butt. Damn.

I like about 2/3rds of these items, - I love to experiment...wish my list was this short. Being romantic and giving in that way is a fun thing to do whether it be rose-petals, or whatever.....The sharing thing with MFM is fun when chemistry works out, but hard to set up. The ones I have exception to are very much non-negotiable....no hickys & don't call me daddy !