Hey..just moved into a downtown always locked doors high rise with a doorman.  Nervous about having anyone over, with the doorman and all.  Anyone here do it? Had any problems?  For any of the ladies here..experience with it?  How do you get past the doorman? Ever an issue?  Obviously he/she wouldn't know any more then perhaps you're just a friend visiting so maybe it wouldn't be an issue.  Thanks

Never once did I have an issue nor did they. Just make sure you give her your code/name/apt number before she gets there so she isn't in the entryway calling you as if she doesn't know you. (By code I don't mean access code but the code to look up your name on the board/buzzer; some places don't use apt numbers or names).  

Yes I gathered as much however more and more (from what it seems to me) are doing out only. Or they are farther then I care to travel as I currently am unable to drive.

not like I would have a constant stream of ladies in and out.  I am actually looking for more of a regular, perhaps even someone to become friends with.  any of u ladies here perhaps

A smart lady will know how to dress, what to carry, and how to blend in at your residential condo. I feel like its a no- brainer. Act like you've been there 100 times and don't draw attention to yourself. It's really, truly as simple as that.  

Re: um...

Yeah I get it. Usually only see well reviewed ladies anyway.

You would think it would be a no brainer, unfortunately it not always is.

These are the times my day wear is perfect into happy hour: an attaché case looks perfect on my shoulder while I'm still in a business suit.  

Much more interesting items..lol.

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And one thing I've noticed is that I don't notice my neighbors and they don't notice me.  It is actually far more anonymous than home ownership.