Following mnjohnny's post on NCNS, I'm sad to report I am now an official member of the NCNS club.  Last Tuesday I booked an appointment for Friday with Cristal Blue in St. Cloud.  I followed up with multiple texts on Thursday, as requested by Cristal.  Friday came, I drove to meet her (an hour from my home further North), called 30 minutes before the scheduled appointment time to get details and the phone went directly to VM.  I left a message and sent a text.  I tried calling multiple times.  I waited until 45 minutes after the scheduled appt, called again and it still went directly to VM so I left and drove back home (another hour drive).  5 hours later I get a text saying "What's Up?"  I asked her what happened and why she missed the appt.  She said she shares her car with someone else and couldn't make it.  I asked her if she shared her phone with that person as well since a phone call or text would have gone a long way.  That's when she finally said "Sorry".  I then tried to explain in her terms what the costs were, based on her rates.  If time truly is money, then I had 3 hours and a 1/2 tank of gas invested in this appointment.  She didn't really understand what I was trying to say.  Regardless, we all know sh*t happens but a phone call, text or email fixes almost everyone of these problems!

http://stcloud.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/cristal-blue-32/6487635

Good line about sharing her phone.  Some people seem to have missed the
"be considerate" lesson from their parents....

ALL providers are members, too.  I sit here commenting as I am available but unseen.  It is very frustrating when there are so many who try to get an appointment that would have shown

I do regret not being able to give you more info when you PM'd me about her.  I had never heard that she had NCNS'd and she has no exuse.  She is not new to the business so she knows better, obviously just didn't care about you.  I know we have reliable ladies come to St. Cloud occasionally, but besides Kali, we don't have many reliable ladies based in St. Cloud and, wow, have you seen the BP ads here lately? Scary!    PM sent

I agree Trinity... I happens not only with appointments but also emails....

I just don't want to see you anymore?  

I've been asked more than once by providers, "How do you tell a guy that you just don't want to see him?"

Of course one way to deal with it is to NCNS, but the better way is to be up front and tell the client "I'm sorry, but I don't want to see you anymore." Ladies, how do you do that without getting into a back-and-forth dialogue as to the reasons?

As I said, I think some deal with it by pulling a NCNS, but it is probably because they don't know how to confront the real issue.

This was the OP's first appointment with the lady in question.

This was the first appointment schedule with the provider so I know "dumping me" wasn't the issue.  Up where I live there's really only 2 providers who visit on a somewhat regular basis.  That often means a car ride is in order to see those that find themselves available but waiting for a call.  I'm with ya MNJ on the BP ads.  The provider I tried to visit has been reviewed here on TER so I felt a little safer on both the LE and NCNS front.

I think the sharing the car thing is bs.  While I never had a true ncns with her, she was unreliable with scheduling - would say she was available at a certain time and keep texting me about needing 10 more minutes, about every 30 minutes.  (hooker time is different than real time - 10 min = half hour)  

Another game she is good at is, knowing that I am not local to her, is to send me an unsolicited text saying she will be in my area.  Then I will say good and make an appt.  Then later she says she isn't going to be in the area after I call at the appointed time.  This is probably because she was doing the same with others in my general area hoping to make the trip worth it.  

I have stopped seeing her months ago because of all this crap.  Although she is a great value, sometimes a low rate still isn't worth putting up with all the bs.

Yep, that's messed up. I don't care which side of the fence you're on, it's wrong.

I can see the likelihood of a no show going up on the provider's side because she's more likely doing a lot of sessions per week, while the guys are doing few if any. But the NCNS without one helluva reason (like a terrible car crash) is blatant disrespect no matter what.

As soon as I get healed up I'll come back and see ya

Of course it was your fault, your ESP should have known she wasnt available.

If she doesn't want to see the guy then don't answer his calls, texts, or emails.