the deal is with client accounts refusing to believe and/or scoffing at provider's when we provide them truthful insight into the job but it is rather frustrating.
I know this has been covered lately, and pushed by some providers and why not nice to get paid before you show up. Anyway this deposit scam seems to be increasing with providers, or should I say fake ads. Most ads that require a deposit indicate bbbj anal and very reasonable prices, along with very hot girls with no reviews. My question is have any of you paid these deposits, and what was the outcome.To me it's equivalent of asking a provider for a fuck on Tuesday and saying ill gladly pay them on Friday when I get paid. Anyway share your experiences if you have any. Personally its just not gonna happen.
A couple years ago when it seamed like I had a pretty nice date set up, with one of your said gals, she told me last minute when I was on my way to stop at a store to get funds into a gift card of some sort as that’s how she prefers payment. A bit odd I must say but I did purchase gift card, which I used later with one of my regulars and went to address she gave me. When I got there she asked for me to send picture of front of card and back of her card to verify funds. A NO I SAID. I was done right then and there but she texted a few times explaining why and even sent a few naughty pics. Always buyer beware.
I doubt I would ever place a deposit but if I did it would have to be with someone I’ve seen previously, have great rapport with and had to see again, so highly unlikely. Definitely never with someone that has no reviews.
Personally its just not gonna happen. I will never pay a deposit.
The only deposit a provider should get is BBJCIM
I agree and I think most of the providers who participate on here would agree that it shows zero common sense to send a deposit to someone with no reviews, no history you can verify, and whose ads seem too good to be true. I would not do a deposit.
On the other hand, if I wanted badly enough to see one of the ladies who participate on this board or anyone who was highly reviewed and could be verified and they required a deposit I don't see anything wrong with doing that.
With one group it's a bad gamble and with the other group the odds are good you'll be satisfied. My opinions only. We all will do what we are comfortable doing.
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I wouldn't respond to ads like that even if they did not ask for a deposit.
I mentioned before that I have in the past, but these dates were with ladies in another state. It is well known that both locally and nationally well known and reviewed companions have taken the money and ran or ended up blackmailing clients.
The dates were "overnight dates," so I was not too worried about getting a grifter. I did have several phone conversations with them beforehand to ease our date out. I have not done any deposits for shorter dates, nor have I ever used an excuse for canceling a date like "A skunk sprayed me."
no deposit under any circumstance!
Think about it. Who asks you for a deposit? Why? It is about guaranteed money not guaranteed service. Paying in advance for anything is disingenuous. Does a lawyer guarantee you will win? Does a phone company guarantee you will be happy with your phone service? Does an airline guarantee your flight? Ever been left standing with you bag at a hotel after paying in advance? How is your fast food when you pay in advance? Seriously, the best chance at GREAT service is when they have to EARN it! Ask those providers if they would rather have the option of getting a tip for great service or have their fee up front with no chance of a tip. If they choose up front, think about what their thought on the service they plan to provide is.
I'm not nearly as hardcore about deposits as some on here are, clearly.
While I'm not going to voluntarily do, I have done it at other times and it has been fine. And I'll probably do it again.
For example, I happily paid a deposit when I saw Jordan and I'll gladly do it again when schedules align. I have done it a few other times for well-reviewed providers who seem to have a good reputation.
Would I do it for a newer provider or one without many reviews? No.
To me it is a risk assessment. Obviously if the session occurs, then there was no loss. It's only if she absconds with the deposit without seeing you.
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Yes a well reviewed popular escort can rip you off. But the risk is pretty low. On the otherhand some unheard of new provider on the equivalent of backpage or whatever, that's pretty high risk. Best avoided.
I don't mind deposits on well reviewed providers. It's the ones that have only been running adds for a couple months with no reviewes that drive me away. Even beyond the whole scam aspect. I do not enjoy creating a digital trail with someone who may or may not be careful with my information.......
I paid half down for a garage door recently
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