Over the past couple of months, I've seen two touring ladies- one from Texas and the other from California that told me it was their last trip to Minnesota because of the number of hobbyist here that call asking for BBFS or show up with their test results to prove they are clean so that they can ask for BBFS. My session was ruined this week because the lady had just "tossed out" two guys back to back that wanted (she said almost demanded) BBFS and she had to spend my session debriefing her anger. Both ladies told me that more over half the calls they received here in Minnesota asked for BBFS or tried to convince them to offer it for an upgrade and that they just have not had this issue in other parts of the country. Not cool! Both were confused as to whether providers in this area are offering it or whether it is a certain group of guys or what. I wasn't very helpful but I thought that I could raise the issue here and see what comments you have here in Minnesota. The ladies in question considered themselves full GFE with bbbj, daty, and dfk.

I've been asked/approached about BBFS from more TER members than not.

A membership and a willingness to research prospective entertainers doesn't mean that a client will always mind his manners.

Further if I went through my email from the past month and listed TER member handles which accompanied explicit requests for " a full true PSE - 'oh I have my AIM tests'....lets just say it would be an eye-opener.

I don't think that these requests are endemic to Minnesota or any other market- there has been a real surge in these requests everywhere.  Touring girls have a habit of assigning generalities to markets when they notice trends that would be insignificant if compared to the experiences of the next provider.

I can only attribute the phenomenon to desperate plays by providers to keep an edge on retaining or gaining the interest of clients- but thats pure speculation on my part.   Unfortunately, this business is littered with people incapable of independent thought who take their cues for what is acceptable and what isn't or gauge risk by what others do.
I think that more clients and providers who engage in risky practices have been increasingly flagrant about their behaviors and its "normalizing" it for others who want to push boundaries too.  This element has always been apart of this business and always will be- humans will be humans and what is taboo or risky will always be desired.

Sorry to butt in, but I am visiting for the first time next week and this sounds bad!!! I will admit though, the guys are trying the same thing in other states. Even some of my regulars tend to forget I am not their girlfriends and may ask for that service!! Just tell them no and move on, thus you know the ones that are doing it will not admit its them, male or female...Tell you what...Anyone reading this please check out the last answer on the FAQ page of my website...http://candygyrlxxx.com/


Sincerely Worried Now

Ms. CandyGyrlxxx

Excellent point that you bring up.  It is unfortunate that your session was ruined because of the situation that you happened upon.

Through my travels and travailles in this "vocation", it has become blatantly obvious that this TER forum serves as somewhat of a "finishing" school for hobbyists.  Those who read, contribute, or just lurk about the TER boards are far more familiar with proper etiquette with which to approach a provider.  The aforementioned is not true with "hobbyists" who frequent less reputable sites.  I would venture to say that better than 90% of TER hobbyists know better that to ask a well-reviewed reputable provider for BBFS.  Going further....I would say that most TER guys would not even think about risking their own health with such a request unless they had downed a liter of Vodka and were still awake at 2 AM when the little head has more blood flowing than the big head.

I can't even imagine anyone asking for that kind of a service in this day and age.  Hopefully
everyone who participates in this forum is smarter than that.  Sorry your session was
ruined because of it.

Maybe there should be hobby schools offering hobby licenses with hobby class taught by well respected hobby teachers.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=21&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=BBFS&SearchType=1&Author=Viper2&DayFrom=3000&DayTo=0&MessageID=27439&frmSearch=1#27439

But you don't need a license to be a parent either.

If you want to protect yourself from the BBFS seekers, be sure to do your homework before touring. Grab your 2 references and check the major blacklisting boards.

I was relaying my personal experience.  In 2 and a half years experience, I have yet to have a BBFS request from a TER member, or anyone else.  Had one who "accidentally" tried to slip a cover off, but never a request.

Just offering a possible explanation, and I was wrong.  mea culpa.  Thanks for making me and everyone else aware.

Just talked to my atf a couple days ago and she had a MN guy ask for outcall to his house, when she showed up she was getting condoms out, He said we don't need them, I'm clean. She said no and he kept pressing the issue, she left. She was steamed as well she should, idiots are everywhere.

I have a revolver and  5 shells. Anyone want to play Russian Roullette?  

Who in there right mind would even consider such an a potentially lethal activity?  Sorry to any of you ladies that have to experience such an idiotic request.

What this also suggests is that these guys are probably finding a few takers.  Scary.

Clients all over do this.  I think Elliot Spitzer got outed for askind/demanding full service.

A recent reviewer alledged that during their session,  the provider wanted BBFS.  I have had more than one provider let me know that BBFS was on her menu.  That is a total turn off for me.  I would guess that the women who offer this bare service, really don't have much to lose.

Honestly, I suspect it happens a lot more than most of us suspect.  All the more reason to be careful.

Personally if a provider would offer, I would walk away from the session, and I care about my own safety to not think about even trying to request it.

...From my experience, TER members (board players and reviewers) are the WORST.

Thank GOD I screen and get references. Girls share intel on the BB seekers.

I agree with gutter, QUIT asking. Ick.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=114065&boardID=10&page=

I have lost track of the numbers.  It sickens me every time!  I have been asked more when I am
on tour.  Guess they think I'm in and out of town and no one will know?  NO! NO!

STOP asking for it and even worse, STOP trying to do it with the attempted cameltoe slide or rubbing up on us!-you are putting everyone of us at risk with this BS!

Don't fool yourself into thinking that TER members are exempt from this behavior.

This is so confusing to me.  I don't see why anyone would want to risk it in the hobby.  Just dumb.