Send a request to a provider on p411 when you clearly don't meet their prescreening requirements? Is that considered being a time waster? I have sent a few request to most of the local newbie friendly providers but most want two references (and I only have one) or have just not responded so I was thinking of trying for providers advertising p411 with references but I am assuming that is two as well.

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on the board and with many current reviews that most providers would consider that as enough, especially if they contact her.

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Through their screening if you're a good guy and present your self well. If Bridget vouches for you I think it will go a long way with many.

As long as u can pass the painless verification ..

I sort of dropped the BP meetings and have tried the higher scale providers. Needless to say, nearly all of them want references. It was just like being unemployed out of college with no professional experience, good times.

If you are looking for fs, and they want a different reference, consider a massage.  I also require references, but I'd take Bridget.  Any of the FS girls would take a reference from me, and I'm happy to give them

And say you're a sweet guy just trying to get by ... Almost sounds like the start to a bad country song lol  

I would agree with Trinity 110%!  

If you fill out contact forms and/or write honest meaningful letters it goes a long way with many....as opposed to one-liner emails with no information.  I get letters often with "Do you have any time available on XXday?"  No signature, no information, background, etc.  It immediately gives me a bad impression.  On the other hand, I respond positively to "I am a x yr old, who works for x.  I am new to the hobby and can only provide 1 reference.  I would be happy to answer any questions that would help to make you feel more comfortable with me. I am interested in meeting while you are in town."  Do you see the difference?

Oh, Angie you are so RIGHT ON!!  

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.  You may find some willing to work with you on other ways to pass their screening.