Minnesota
"Never hobby with more money than you are willing to lose" - If a girl is too explisit on the phone, I get worried that it's a set-up!
The best way to decribe it is you need to use "The Force" to discern which girls offer extra and which don't.... I've been fooled a few times, even lead on that things will get "more comfortable" after some repeat visits, only to find it's a false lead.... If things don't seem promising by the third apointment, then I cut and run.... but that's just me, everyone has to establish what their risk level is and operate with in those bounds.
The "safe" way is to follow the boards and reviews, and take the road most traveled,,, As for me, the hunt is part of the game, and all of the best experences I've had along the way, I found myself! But it has been a VERY expensive road......
Each ad needs to be taken as an indevidual case. there's no broad answer to those questions....
I recently saw this hottie from the erotic massage section, and after a few sessions with me she has now changed her ad over to the escort section! (he-he-he!)
This is not a girl for everyone, but with a little effort on my part, She has been providing some top rate entertainment! 
BIG "YMMV" - but I'll be gettin' some more of that!
"Never hobby with more money than you are willing to lose" - If a girl is too explisit on the phone, I get worried that it's a set-up!
The best way to decribe it is you need to use "The Force" to discern which girls offer extra and which don't.... I've been fooled a few times, even lead on that things will get "more comfortable" after some repeat visits, only to find it's a false lead.... If things don't seem promising by the third apointment, then I cut and run.... but that's just me, everyone has to establish what their risk level is and operate with in those bounds.
The "safe" way is to follow the boards and reviews, and take the road most traveled,,, As for me, the hunt is part of the game, and all of the best experences I've had along the way, I found myself! But it has been a VERY expensive road......