or... funny how a circle is a wheel... Some gals get no-shows so they start to double book. Some guys get NCNS'ed so they start to devise back-up plans, which can be to double book.

Round and round they go, when will they NCNS? Nobody knows.

I don't have an answer. I'm not that smart.

But, I think it's important for each of us as individuals to treat one another with basic courtesy and respect... No double booking, no NCNS.

After all, what goes around comes around.

Yup. I can honestly say I have NEVER 'double-booked' a provider....but certainly have been on the other end.

Let's not forget this occurs on BOTH sides of the coin.(very unfortunate)

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Dude approaches me for an appointment, and gives me good references.  The references are friends of mine, and we exchange references frequently.  So I proceed to send out my reference requests to my friends after I acknowledge his request.

Turns out that he had/has an appointment with one of the references at the SAME time that he was asking for me!  In essence, he was double-booking.  Do these men really believe that we don't communicate with each other?  My next question is WHY would this gentleman use my friend/his appointment as his reference if he already had an appointment with her?!?!?!?!?!?  Granted that he didn't know that we were friends until I told him in my acknowledgment that his verification should go smooth since I knew his references.  When I told him that, he had the opportunity to stop the request for an appointment.

Sometimes I wonder if it is worth the $$$'s to be intimate with stupid.  Given that "stupidity" or thinking with the wrong head seems prevalent, he may even try to make another appointment with me.  I already emailed him telling him that he seems to have issues with my friend that I refuse to get involved.  My question to you ladies is would you entertain another appointment request from this "gentleman"?

Sorry for the alias, but it is to protect the living.  LOL

Had you not caught him one of you would have been NCNS'd, or gotten a last minute cancellation which can be just as bad. I would hope you friend refused to see him as well.

you and the other provider should BOTH keep the appointment, but both of you be in the same location. When (if) he shows make him pony up the $$$ for the both of you and tell him if he doesn't he'll be blacklisted in the provider community.  What a BURN!!!!!

Ok, I'm being a little facetious, but wouldn't it be priceless to see the look on his face when the door opens and both of you are there with pissed looks on your faces????

That would indeed be priceless! At the very least you'd also have each other's backs as well..

The answer is keeping the back up plan on speed dial in your h-phone. Because my spiratic and inconsistant schedule rarely allows me the opportunity to deal with girls who require advance scheduling, I seldom encounter this situation.

But when I do prebook someone, this is where those 24/7 BP girls come in handy. No need to prebook with two girls; book with one, and if she flakes on you, have a number or three to call of the girls who are "always ready".

Almost word for word, in fact. He was someone who had NCNS'ed me at one point before, but I was willing to give him another chance until I found out he'd already booked an appointment with the other provider while trying to make one with me as well.

Of course, she and I were in constant communication during the fact, watching as he called her, then emailed me, then emailed her, then called me.... and so on. It was actually very amusing watching him go back and forth. We could tell he was either looking for the best deal, whoever was available first, or whoever was closer. Which is fine if you're just shopping around... but he clearly had full intentions of scheduling with both of us and NCNSing whoever didn't fit his needs.

The other provider eventually cancelled on him, and I refused to see him and explained to him why, at which time he threw a tantrum and called us both names and threatened us.  Needless to say he won't be seeing any other escorts that I or the other provider personally know.

Moral of the story? Double booking is never a good idea... even if you think you can get away with it, chances are you won't.

I think your being to hard on him , for sure was going to bring her and surprise you!  OK I"m being a smart ass.  I"ve been NCNS and it sucks.  That"s why I stick with ladies I enjoy and trust.  Afterall there is a reson they earned that personal rating from me.  bigdell

this kind of thing happens more often than we probably know.  This case was only found out by accident.
Most providers won't say a word about it on a public board when she's NCNS'd by a guy because it is considered bad form to do so.

I was going to ask if one or both of your appointments were for outcall. It's (barely) possible he wanted a 3-way with specific ladies, but it's unconscionable that he doesn't say that upfront. The correct way would be to ask one of the providers if they (a) provide 3-ways and (b) if they know the second provider and (c) could they set up the 3-way for an additional fee over and above the 2 provider fees.