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Minnesota Erotica Email Replies (or lack of)
Cold_of_Winter 19 Reviews 3530 reads
posted
1 / 17

I have sent emails to a few ladies on MNE over the last few weeks. I always just inquire about availability and details, never asking specific questions or detailed info. Keep it to a general hello and inquiry. I’ve even sent polite follow ups noting perhaps my message fell into the pit of multiples contacts. However, I have not received a single reply from any of them.  

To clarify a point as well: I created a new account that has never been used for anything but these contacts.  

I’ve contacted Kenzie, Kacey, and Stella. Not a single response. I’ve also checked junk folders in case it was filtered.

Anyone else ran into this? I’ve seen their reviews. I’ve even referenced I’ve seen reviews to note I’m ter elite. Thoughts? Anyone? Please? Haha

hazydavy74 49 Reviews 123 reads
posted
2 / 17

You can try sending in reference's, without them they probable don't even look at it. You'll need reference's from two recent providers you have seen and they must be e-mailable, only no phone numbers and this there only method of  screening at this time. This topic get discussed on here once every couple of month's, if you do a search I'm sure you'll find several recent threads. I'll leave to some of the other guy's to chime in and tell you the why's and why nots. It's just not you there are several others  probable several hundred others that are in the same boat.  
On a good note there are 4 or 5 that have left that group and have gone Independent and will reply to you're email.
Also something that may help save you sometime is if you see a ad you're interest in and then look on TER and if the review states the location to be (sent pm)  It's doubtful you well get a response.
Good luck !

IMhornbody2 45 Reviews 99 reads
posted
3 / 17

Not sure that it has not already been stated in past threads but it seems to be an ongoing problem. I also find myself with a sent folder of dozens of messages that I have sent over the months sometimes making me wonder if I (we) are being seen as stalkers. One regular who actually does respond to messages says that when she gets reference email addresses from the guy, the provider (MOST LIKELY SCHEDULER) does not get back to them either, so there we sit after getting the auto reply or pasted reply that asks for references but then they (providers we use) get NO response either. it just seems unfair to all involved, that someone other than the provider gets to decide who THEY get to spend time with.  In a past thread it was admitted that some providers do not even know until they see the whites of our eyes, who is actually  behind the opening door.
 Ms Paige was kind enough months ago to give us an idea of what is a good opening header in a message and what not to write .....well I tried exactly what she advised and got zero better response. I tried changing emails and sending even more generic message and stating references enclosed, and the problem with that is that the providers that you have seen will not recognize the new address. I understand ladies are striving to be safe but most do not even read the TER board or the reviews that they ask us to write so being vocal here does not help either. Whatever happened to the white listing on here ....if you scour  reviewers over the last several years , NO ONE is getting whitelisted lately and providers continue to request we write a 'nice review' for them. So even in the past if you had some it does not seem that they matter either.
Not sure how the ladies are staying busy and with the number of times you see a new ad on ME you need to wonder if they are as busy as they appear to be while we wait in line. The list of ladies that you mentioned i could add a dozen more that just do not respond and now i will end with the latest problem that i had to suck on and just move on. I finally got the first message back (from scheduler) which asked for references, my references followed thru and i was accepted with good  passing marks ......UNTIL the scheduler found out that i walk with a walker and I had  told her i could get up a stairway if there was a rail, but SHE decided that I probably would not be a good fit for her (linsey).....I had to wonder if the provider was told that a possible newbie gem was turned away. Hell ...... gorgeous Shyla helped me get up 3 flights of stairs to see her and we had a great time. I have also been turned down because i do not have a smart phone and they cannot TEXT to me or send to my computer the night before so i know where the F*** I am going soooooooo after the teeth pulling of original message, references and confirmation then they tell me well i guess it will not work for you.....I guess i need an uber driver with a smart phone to travel with so i can get the secret handshake and passcode and fancy dance to enter OR maybe I just stay with my walk-in AMP hotties that also express way more sincerity when they provide.

IMhornbody2 45 Reviews 123 reads
posted
4 / 17

I have been hobbying for ten years under this name and before TER went down for awhile under IMhornbody .....Not sure that it has not already been stated in past threads but it seems to be an ongoing problem, so it is time i get in my 2 dolars worth......... I,  also find myself with a sent folder of dozens of messages that I have sent over the months sometimes making me wonder if I (we) are being seen as stalkers. One regular who actually does respond to messages says that when she gets reference email addresses from the guy, the provider (MOST LIKELY SCHEDULER) does not get back to them either, so there we sit after getting the auto reply or pasted reply that asks for references but then they (providers we use) get NO response either. it just seems unfair to all involved, that someone other than the provider gets to decide who THEY get to spend time with.  In a past thread it was admitted that some providers do not even know until they see the whites of our eyes, who is actually  outside  the opening door.
 Ms Paige was kind enough months ago to give us an idea of what is a good opening header in a message and what not to write .....well I tried exactly what she advised and got zero better response. I tried changing emails and sending even more generic message and stating references enclosed, and the problem with that is that the providers that you have seen will not recognize the new address. I understand ladies are striving to be safe but most do not even read the TER board or the reviews that they ask us to write so being vocal here does not help either. Whatever happened to the white listing on here ....if you scour  reviewers over the last several years , NO ONE is getting whitelisted lately and providers continue to request we write a 'nice review' for them. So even in the past if you had some, it does not seem that they matter either.
Not sure how the ladies are staying busy and with the number of times you see a repeat or even new ad on ME you need to wonder if they are as busy as they appear to be while we wait in line for a scrap of a message. The list of ladies that you mentioned i could add a dozen more that just do not respond and now i will end with the latest problem that i had to suck on and just move on. I finally got the first message back (from scheduler) which asked for references, my references followed thru and i was accepted with good  passing marks ......UNTIL the scheduler found out that i walk with a walker and I had  told her i could get up a stairway if there was a rail, but SHE decided that I probably would not be a good fit for her (linsey).....I had to wonder if the provider was told that a possible newbie gem :) was turned away. Hell ...... gorgeous Shyla helped me get up 3 flights of stairs to see her and we had a great time. I have also been turned down because i do not have a smart phone and they cannot TEXT to me or send to my computer the night before so i know where the F*** I am going soooooooo after the teeth pulling of original message, references and confirmation then they tell me well i guess it will not work for you.....I guess i need an uber driver with a smart phone to travel with so i can get the secret handshake and passcode and fancy dance to enter OR maybe I just stay with my walk-in AMP hotties that also express way more sincerity when they are on the other side of pampering.

vorlon 119 Reviews 101 reads
posted
5 / 17

In the interests of full disclosure, I have not actually seen any of the providers handled by the agencies behind much, if not most, of the MNE providers.  So, my information is second hand based on what I have heard from others and my interpretations.

There seem to be 1-2 agencies that handle most of the providers whose ads appear entirely or close to it on minnesotaerotica.com.  The agency(ies) actually run the web site as well.  Even though the providers each have their own email address, it is the schedulers for the agency(ies) that actually control and monitor the email accounts.  There are also a number of independent providers who advertise there so just advertising on the site is not conclusive but I have been told is if they only advertise on MNE and only have a gmail account then they are probably not independents.

Be prepared that, even if you do provide the references and anything else people tell you about, for the possibility you won't get a response.  People who have been long time regulars of some of these providers have abruptly found themselves taken off the "approved list" for no known reason.

Tippsy 131 reads
posted
6 / 17

It's a poorly run agency group who has blacklisted guys for no reason and ladies there had no say.  Many have even left to go independent.  I use to be a regular in that group for about a year when they first hit the Mn scene until one day they just cut off about 15 guys for no reason.   I am now back seeing a few favorites who have left.  Their schedulers only respond to their "approved" guys and don't let many newcomers in.  It's their loss while there many other top tier gals outside that bs agency on ME.  I would also highly recommend XO companions for smokeshow ladies who visit frequently.     There is another other group here in MN that has awesome schedulers and a few hot ladies who will provide whatever fantasy you desire.  Just provide a couple email references from two providers and you will get a response.

SammiStoneMPLS See my TER Reviews 114 reads
posted
7 / 17

I started out in this hobby as a scheduler. So I know the inner workings better than most. Not all on MNE are part of an agency. For example, I share a space with a couple of other independent providers and we share a scheduler. They do not do their own emails, but are independent in the sense that what they say goes. If they don’t want to see someone again: blacklisted, if they want the day off: they say the word. They also have “VIPs” whose emails get replied to first and they get appointment preference. However, we are 3 out of however many are on MNE. I am not sure what the reason for the agency schedulers not responding is,  but maybe they have too many girls in too small of a space and it fills quickly. Or they’re just bad schedulers.  

I consistently follow the discussion board, however I don’t often participate (I’ll save the reasons why for another post).  

Just wanted to chime in, as I see others often posting that ‘MNE is one agency, and that is not the case.

IMhornbody2 45 Reviews 104 reads
posted
8 / 17
Sweet.rain See my TER Reviews 108 reads
posted
9 / 17

Have you tried doing an email search of their emails to see if their auto responses might be in your spam box? It's possible they are away. As summer tends to get busier for everyone with vacations.  

When you initially reach out , it wpuodnt be a bad thing to mention referneces or that you have screening info available upon request ,  but each provider is different when it comes to screening.  

I would also do a reverse search to make sure you have the correct ad , as in my experience and a few other have had the same , where other fake account have been made to pose as us to either gain client or use a profile that appears to be us for fake refernece.  

So now I do a reverse search everytime someone is using g a reference .  

My last thought is that it's possible , if you are using a burner line, that someone else had gotten before giving it a bad review. Or that you yourself may have been black listed by someone

IMhornbody2 45 Reviews 115 reads
posted
10 / 17

Ms Sammi and all providers who care,
 I appreciate your message and chiming in but i am now even more confused......and please do not take this as an attack cuz being blacklisted for my confusion is not my intent here.  i just do not understand why anyone would 'hire' a scheduler (I assume they get some compensation from you or the agency) to be in control of THEIR business. You said "you do not do your own emails" but yet are independent. I get the "if you do not want to see someone again : blacklisted, because you have experienced and do not want to repeat !!  ....but what about the guy that emails and gets no response after several honest attempts ??? Is he blacklisted ?? how do we know ?? who tells us the 'why' cuz the lady obviously does not know the guys that are getting shut out ? And what if he was a gem that you would have liked ?
 
In fairness to the guy maybe the scheduler should just be told by you, in this example, that this provider is not seeing any newbies at present (which has happened to me before and i moved on, only to try months later again) this would reinforce your statement of VIP status or that your book is full and not looking to expand your choices (but then stop running ads every few days that makes us old horny guys think that you are still available to contact)  so what you are saying is that your (3) independent group functions this way with your shared scheduler just like many others out there sooooooooo  i still need to know why  my generic message   header: "good morning, just wondering if tuesday could work....references enclosed"  is not being answered ? After your post that I am responding to I sent AGAIN that message which has been sent before and not just to you ? (with the same result....ghosted....or maybe i did not wait long enough yet.....but I also PM ed the same to your TER addy at the same time) Am I on some blacklist list ? Is there a place that we guys can look at to see our message being answered rate ? No one seems to whitelist any of us anymore but the blacklist sure seems to be in play if what you stated in your post is true. I know i am not alone in asking this .....just the guy that is burning future bridges :(  but i would love to know how to be able to see some of the wonderful ladies that Minnesota hobby has to offer :)  
I love the hobby and have been around for a long time and plan to continue if the schedulers allow but it would be nice if independent meant just that and it was not a crap shoot for the times we have to go through the wardens.

I would love it if all providers and schedulers chimed in on this, the guys have been complaining for months now and maybe it is not important to those whose books are full and bodies already sore after a long day of dealing with the hornbodies that are reaching out, but it would help lay to rest how the communication can maybe improve......thanks Sammi for your post.... I hope i did offend anyone

mogulmaven 79 Reviews 97 reads
posted
11 / 17

That has been my experience with MNE.   I had seen quite a few of the providers there and been very pleased overall.  My reviews have been pretty good for most of them.   I am clean, professional, fit.   I tip appropriately (per what other hobbyist have told me they are giving).   But suddenly, I have been blacklisted.   I do get a rare response and have seen a couple providers during the blackout.  Other times, the scheduler responded and I set up an appointment only to be told later that the provider was sick that day or there was a mistake in scheduling or something like that.  I am moving on some but continue to try and set up appointments with them. I'm not sure what happened but am a little relieved to know that I am not alone.  

Kingdami 58 Reviews 131 reads
posted
12 / 17

May I know who this other group that will “provider whatever fantasy you desire” is? Are they a MNE group?

Posted By: Tippsy
Re: Don't waste your time with one particular agency  group
It's a poorly run agency group who has blacklisted guys for no reason and ladies there had no say.  Many have even left to go independent.  I use to be a regular in that group for about a year when they first hit the Mn scene until one day they just cut off about 15 guys for no reason.   I am now back seeing a few favorites who have left.  Their schedulers only respond to their "approved" guys and don't let many newcomers in.  It's their loss while there many other top tier gals outside that bs agency on ME.  I would also highly recommend XO companions for smokeshow ladies who visit frequently.     There is another other group here in MN that has awesome schedulers and a few hot ladies who will provide whatever fantasy you desire.  Just provide a couple email references from two providers and you will get a response.

CuriousBoy95 26 Reviews 146 reads
posted
13 / 17

There are many providers using that site and not all in the same group. That's just an ad listing site like Craigslist. We wouldn't be complaining about Craigslist if a poster doesn't responds to our queries. From the girls you listed, I've had luck with Kenzie, but no response from Stella and Kacey. Had luck with indie's like Tyler and Andrea, but no response from Olivia. I have no idea what the filtering method is. My guess is some girls just see repeat clients. I just move on after a few tries. There's lot of other options out there.

vorlon 119 Reviews 102 reads
posted
14 / 17

Reports from other hobbyists have said that the operators of 1 or 2 of the groups that advertise on MNerotica also own the site.

imdone74 10 Reviews 104 reads
posted
15 / 17

I don't have time to waste on them.  I tried a few times then decided that my money is better spent on providers who actually understand the value of good communication - even if it's a "I'm sorry, but I'm not available at that date and time."  If any of these girls have gone independent, then hopefully they're advertising elsewhere, as well.  I basically only respond to MNE ads if there's a phone number or non-Gmail email address.  The only way for their practices to change is if their business dries up.  Since I can't dictate what other's do, I choose to vote with my business and maybe other's will do the same.  

jimmymack100 5 Reviews 162 reads
posted
16 / 17

Well fellas after the many many posts about lack of email response of ME girls. I think you either accept it or move on cause its not gonna change.

IMhornbody2 45 Reviews 111 reads
posted
17 / 17

It is all the ego of the old guy.........42 weeks of messaging to Tessa T ........and zero response except an auto reply that one of her addresses is having some trouble......YA THINK !

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