No, that's not it at all.  These women are really into you.  The only reason they take your money is because it's an important part of a time honored ritual.  Kinda like communion at mass.

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Anyone who felt that way about any job, regardless of what it was, should go do something else.

And once, I had a provider describe her job to me this way:  "I love someone for an hour."

I think the acting is part of the service. I guess I am just selfish.

This link was posted on another board a while back. Here is a short excerpt.  

"Explicit instructions that I be enthusiastic on top of being willing is one of the worst parts of the job for me. It’s the closest I ever come to feeling humiliated while working, because my enthusiasm in this case isn’t about me at all; it’s about their egos and their need to feel desired. But I’m a real human being, and my personal, authentic desires deserve better than to be exploited by a man I’ve just met. It’s easier for me to fake enjoyment with a man who assumes it, since I feel we’re both implicitly joining in on the fantasy that he’s bought. The man who must make it explicit, who needs me to initiate every time, who has to be told I want him—he’s the one who asks too much."

And if you don't like the article, maybe you will enjoy this. I thought this pic was pretty funny

And I am sure there are many others who look at it the same way and even more who look at in any number of different ways.  There is way too much variation amongst humans to say that one attitude is "the way" to look at something.

well know provider told me "guys do not comprehend how hard and horrible this job is, they think we enjoy it but we do not..it is all about $"
I think that's the way it is, I honestly do not believe there are girls who like this..maybe only those who cannot get laid easil