I would not even bother to put this out there but feel the community needs to be aware given reviews are not allowed which is something that should be changed.  I am aware these happen on both sides frequently but it does not happen on my side, ever!

Hailey Kneads TER 296608:  the first two attempts should have been a warning.  I'm usually one or two attempts and done but gave her the benefit of the doubt because she is closer to me than any other option.

1st attempt: Several weeks ago contacted through P411 with 30+ok's:  Made an appt. two days in advance, she says "sounds great" then later says "any chance you can come today".  I respond with "let me check" then a bit later say yes with time and she says "that's good" I say I'll text before I head that way (she knows I'm an hour or more away).  Ready to leave, text her, no response for 3 hours saying "can you come now?".

2nd attempt:  Tried to keep the appt. originally set two days out.  Confirmed early the night before stating I'd text before heading her way, she responds "look forward to seeing you in the am".  Text in the am when I am ready to leave, no response, I head that way but turn around after 15 minutes which was a good decision.  4 hours later I get "sorry, can you come now?" with a bunch of BS about it being worst week of her life.  I message on P411 and get an assurance that it really was a bad week and if I try again it will not be a problem. I tell her I'll consider it.

3rd attempt:  Contacted a couple days out, she respond right away and we work out the details for an early am.  I confirm the night before and say I will text when I am on my way and "where am I going?". She gives me a landmark close to her so figure I'm good to go.  I text in the am when I leave, no response but figure it's early and should be good.  Arrived at the landmark 5 min early, still no response.  Call, leave messages hang around for a half hour and then head out.  4 hours later get a long BS text with an excuse that was easy to confirm as BS.  Along with that she says she'd send me a check if I send her my address or deliver a check to me to cover gas.  Nobody their right mind would write a check in this business and I  surely would not give her my address to mail or deliver one.  I never asked or complained about $$ just said "thanks for wasting nearly 3hrs of my time today, I won't make that mistake in the future".

Proceed with caution.

 

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Your anger is justified, but swallow hard and move on. Not everything goes the way we want, there are plenty of quality ladies to choose from if you get stood up. Just imagine if it was a cash and dash?

Sorry for the rant, that was not the intent.  I've already moved on and understand exactly how this all works after being at it for 15+ years.  Simply trying to save others from the same trouble but maybe that is not wanted here? If so I can live with that and won't waste the time in the future.

Why the alias? Hi

Pretty blunt for no reviews and your first post.

I think it is fine to mention this stuff. But you know some people here will complain about any post.  I would say ignore them and go with your gut feeling.  

I never have written reviews.  I have seen many of the well established ladies. A few retired a few still active. I started this adventure in my life when the MGC was in operation. I apologize for being blunt. I been on the board for many years.

Seriously though, the above poster didn't come off as angry to me. He was measured and rational. I suppose it takes some emotional involvement to motivate you to write a post like that, but not much.

Chipster  Thank you for the heads up.  You drove an hour, try driving almost 5 to have it happen.  So the lady may really have had the worst week of her life, but I am not going to give her the opportunity to have one worse the week I schedule.  So she is off my list of ladies of interest.  Hope things go well for her.  Thank you for the info, it is the board working the way it should.  bigdell

My whole point is look for another provider, so many things can go wrong on the first visit or she had a better offer. Don't make it personal, that's all I am saying. She does have a recent review. She flaked out on you, I have had appointments where I showed up and she didn't answer. I left, with no ill feeling, knowing someone had made a deal she couldn't refuse. That's the business.

I was actually referring to some posters in general, and not your post which I pretty much agree with. Nobody on this thread has yet to crossed the line I was talking about. But there is this attitude hanging over all post where a few complainers will eventually drop in to tell us what we're all doing wrong.

I don't write reviews either. But this room is cut-throat.  Can't give any info, eleven if it's helpful to others, without getting your ass chewed out in the room, via PM, and in some cases blacklisted.

The site is used for both good and bad providers. That is the whole idea of it.
NCNS, RIPOFFS,NOT PUTTING OUT, COCKBLOCKERS, Are what I want to avoid any and all info is much appreciated.

To find who you like and mite click with and have a great time.

But don't post some thing bad on here. HAHAHA The white knights come out of the woodwork trying to flexing their finger tips on there key board.

Plus another thing, I think ho's she be limited to the ad board only.
The site is for mongers and alike to review ho's and get the best bang for our bucks with out getting ripped off or wasting our time.

... to limit providers to the Ad board, for yourself:  don't read posts from providers. Then you can live free from those posts, which I and others think are a big asset to the discussion boards, not a liability.  

You could also put providers who post here on Ignore, but then you'd need to look at the Ads without logging in, and if you ever wanted to exchange PMs with a provider you'd have to temporarily remove the Ignore.  Kinda messy.

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Doesn't mean it's not true, all of it

I totally disagree on ladies posting here, I think it is good for the board and gives more insight into their personalities and other things that are very telling.  I've seen posts and comments by ladies on various boards that increases my desire to see them by 1000% and the opposite is also true.  Unfortunately most ladies here have been chased away for various reasons.  

For my part, I prefer for the ladies to participate here.

I really appreciate it. I decided to try to see her tomorrow afternoon because I live on east side and she has good reviews and looks hot. I communicated yesterday by email and no response and today by text. Got one strange reply and then one that said "text me in the morning and I will know better my schedule." I mainly see massage ladies so I am used to getting responses with set times. Hailey's response scared me a bit. Now I really am glad I checked the Discussion board searching if there was anything. I think I will tell her tomorrow I am going another direction. Thanks again Woodchip