: NCNS : Discussion in Minnesota, posted by movingalongfast

Not to sound like an asshole/bitch/cunt/dick head...etc. , but I'm pretty sure you've done the same to the majority of the local Mpls providers... including myself & who knows how many Rochester providers. I booked a room specifically for our appointment & after you cancelled last minute (twice) you promised to reimburse me for hotel costs and cancellation fee. I was willing to settle for hotel costs at a minimum & I have yet to see those funds (which you said you sent) and I know for a fact that you have done this to at least 3 handfuls of providers. Again, not to sound like an asshole or bitch or whatever name is running through your mind right now, but Karma has a way of teaching people their lessons. That's why I never let things like this get to me, I know that in the end, the evil bitch known as Karma will make her way back around & be sure that people reap what they sow.

Hope everyone is having a great night & remember.... What you put out is what you get back

Happy Vibes To ALL!!!!
Xoxo-Dani

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thumper696912 years ago975 reads

I wonder if outing him for past sins is a good idea.

If what he did to you is true, I don't believe that a public lynching is the proper punishment. This should be handled on the Providers Only board, as well as Provider Back Channel ways.(IMO). and I would guess the NBL site.

If this particular NCNS that the OP posted was about you, it's a totally different story about taking him to task publicly. Again IMO.

Your recap of your negotiations is just "she said", and again airing your problem with him on a public forum is in bad taste (IMO)- and maybe even bad karma, as you point out

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TalonTed12 years ago745 reads

Re: I wonder if outing him for past sins is a good idea.

TER is about information, the more the better. Kudos to DD for pointing him out.

Posted By: thumper6969

If what you say is true- he deserves to be on your DNS list- and to privately warn your sisters in the biz about this guy.
BUT- you assume he has done this to others ("but I'm pretty sure you've done the same to the majority of the local Mpls providers... including myself & who knows how many Rochester providers") as you lumped in local providers. When you look at his reviews he has seen some high profile local talent- so maybe your assumption is incorrect-

If what he did to you is true, I don't believe that a public lynching is the proper punishment. This should be handled on the Providers Only board, as well as Provider Back Channel ways.(IMO). and I would guess the NBL site.

If this particular NCNS that the OP posted was about you, it's a totally different story about taking him to task publicly. Again IMO.

Your recap of your negotiations is just "she said", and again airing your problem with him on a public forum is in bad taste (IMO)- and maybe even bad karma, as you point out.

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DanielleDD12 years ago678 reads

Re: I wonder if outing him for past sins is a good idea.

I was just pointing out that he himself was guilty of the exact same thing that he was calling a provider out on. And yes, he does have some of the top ladies as PAST references, but however, he also has a rep now of cancelling more than booking. If you read my post, I wasn't trying to say it to be a spiteful person, just pointing out that he himself was guilty of the exact same thing he was calling someone else out on. And yes, I do know for a fact of EVERYTHING I posted, I never assume... we all know what happens when you assume (wink). Just like you Gents, us Ladies back channel too. Also, by saying this should be pointed out on the Providers Only board is like saying his post should have been on the Reviewers Only board... Same difference. I def always keep it positive and am not worried about my Karma as I always stick to the golden rule.... Do onto others as you would like them to do onto you.

Keeping it positive & keeping it honest is the best way to be...
Live well.

Xoxo-Dani

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vorlon12 years ago580 reads

Under the circumstances I don't see a problem

We often bring up providers who NCNS hobbyists. Now we have one who says he has been NCNS'd but apparently does similar things to escorts. I don't see why he shouldn't be called out for such behavior. As far as the "he said, she said" aspect of it, that is the reality of many disputes amongst posters here because the rest of us typically weren't there to see whatever went down. We are left to make our own judgements about whom we consider more credible.

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looking6412 years ago828 reads

SBH....sucks being him

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sweetromantic12 years ago828 reads

Re: How does that shoe on the other foot feel????

He has seen quite a few good girls, someone must have liked him.

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brilove12 years ago825 reads

I will step forward and say that DD is telling the truth ...

He is a sweet guy, one on one, but he has canceled on me more than twice and didn't reimburse me and I have heard the same from others ... We have backchanneled and I believe his reputation is proceeding him. Things do come up at work and such ... We have all had to cancel I'm sure or reschedule ... But the OP does have a history of cancel last minute and my guess is that he is on many do not see lists thus is having difficulty scheduling appointments and has been canceled on or no call no show due to his history.

Another one of my guesses: many of the 'likes' she got on her post are from providers. Its not easy to call someone out on a public forum.

I try to be positive as much as possible but had to say something. Maybe its karma or just the laws of physics 'what goes around, comes around'

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