Ok, I would love feedback on this. I have tried a number of times to meet up with a provider and have received confirmation via email each time. It is a well known provider and I have tried 4 times and have been very forgiving. Why not just tell me no! Or explain why not? I guess I just have to move on, but in my field of business professionalism is of the most importance. If anyone has any suggestions please let me know.  

Name.  Save the rest of us.

You probably should ask her, or just move on.  There's apparently something that's making her leery and unwilling to meet you.  There's no way to tell what it is without her input.  However, given that she's done this four times, why not just look elsewhere?

I have done only a few reviews, but in my experience posting a truthful review can end up black balling you. I have been down that road before, even though my review was not bad, I just said it was perhaps not a good fit for me, and she was more than accommodating and a great personality, great performance. Just not my type. I would rather give respect of the provider in the same I expect from her. I will move on, but I wanted to see what others have experienced as I am just befuddled. I certainly would not do that to anyone knowingly and would at a minimum apologize. But to have it done 4 times makes me think I am just a pushover

u're incredibly patient, Dave.  You give the benefit of the doubt and drive the extra miles.  I am new to this business and think you are right to bring it to discussion.  I would be perplexed.  You'd think a well known provider would be on top of it and be professional and if this is your experience then that sucks and that shouldn't happen.  Not only is that not professional but it is simply not considerate on any level.  4x?  Wow.  I can see how the other poster suggested saving the other gents such trouble... or maybe bring it to her attention and see if she'd meet you in Andover so you don't have to drive down again and risk it and ask for a decent discount to boot?  Stand up for yourself if this is your experience... everyone deserves a second chance.... but if you've given 4 chances then somehow the balance has to be righted whether you save the other gents the trouble or you ask for balance to be met in some fair way with the well known provider.

Did you have a confirmed time and location or what exactly?  Regardless, I would move on at this point.

Yes all were confirmed by a "sounds good" or I recd an email saying you are booked for this time on this day. I often go the extra mile and pick up multiple bottles of wine just to make sure that I have something she may like. In this last instance I mentioned my bday is tomorrow( yes it's true) and hopefully I'd have an early bday present, lol. She replied with a happy bday after that and now radio silent again. I appreciate your input

I always confirm the day of by text or call then sometimes again right before I leave for the meeting.  NCNS happens to all of us and this helps me reduce it.

Give you her exact location vice versa and then not show up? If not,
Then it's not really a NCNS by definition.
 It's probably she is either very busy or something else happened.
Just saying because a confirmation that the time requested is available  
doesn't necessarily mean set in stone.  
Being someone that has days where it's one cluster F after another
 or I can't leave my other job whenever I want due to sick people etc
it's easy to see I wouldn't purposely flake for no good reason.
V.

those scenarios were the case, wouldn't she explain it afterwards?

there are a few ladies who do this so often that they become know for it.  Most often it is a person with a substance abuse problem.  If she keeps responding then she is not saying no, she would just not answer.  There is a reasonable chance that you are dealing with someone who has trouble keeping her own schedule together.  If you offer the name or an add that is current someone on this board would be able to answer that question.  The way you describe your experience there is one name that comes to mind.  IF you don't want to ask publicly PM me and I may be able to offer some info

But then wouldn't it be proper to notify the fellow that you are unable to keep the arrangement.  

How does it cost anything to make an email inquiry? He still didn't say if he actually showed up or not.
 I mean I spend a lot of time going back & forth via email daily as do many other ladies.
So,
 If that's the case some of you guys owe me a lot of money for asking so many questions &  
not booking quickly enough !  LolJK!  
On a serious note, with all possible explanations aside.
 Sure you should tell them what's going on but then again there's that time limit thing, if it's time sensitive
you don't bother explaining to them because it's been too long.
It's not a NCNS but more of a flake out IMO.
When I flake it's usually because I work so much & have so many things on my mind
so I totally spaced it but I do explain my lack of communication.
Not defending the lady but that's a part of the hobby & real life I'm afraid

Vorlon, no sooner than the last comment the provider apologized and said it was not me and she would be happy to make things right. She suggested that she would work with me and we scheduled for a mtg today. Oops my mistake, same thing happened. I sent a msg to confirm as no phone is listed. The provider did say last week that she did agree to the date/time. Why go through and apologize and discuss it with me only to pull the same stunt? I am completely baffled. I was all set to move on. I am not a member but if you can contact me somehow, let me know