Bit again. I set up an appointment for 3:30 with Sierra. She has ok reviews and a really nice web site

I Just need to vent a little

You lucked out.  I saw Sierra about a year ago.  Her pictures are not current and the line in her ad that says "I am not offering anything Illegal" seemed to be VERY true.  You now have an opportunity to spend those dollars with someone who will be more interested in pleasing you.

all in the eye of the beholder my friend

I certainly agree.  It is clear from comments on this forum that some readers like a massage with no "extras," and many are only there for the "extras."  If no "extras" is your preference, you now know one more place they are (not) available.